How to act when you see girls you've made out with at club?



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 21, 2012 11:58 pm 
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Title says the main question. Background : I'm at university in the UK, fair size (14000?) but you still see the same people out at the clubs.

So far I have :
-said hello and given an awkward hug as we walked past eachother...
-come over to her group, tap her, then proceed to pick her up and spin her round, drop her then tell her I have to go (was fairly drunk lol)

What is best to do in this situation? haven't yet come across one of these girls during the day, walking to class, but could well happen soon.

Thanks in advance guys, appreciate it :)


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 1:22 am 
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Haha ok, rephrase the question, how to immediately eliminate any awkwardness?


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 7:48 am 
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Act normal!

Like they're just friends. Like making out with girls is what you do in your everyday life. Being awkward is the last thing you want.

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I personally don't like the answer 'act normal'. it's like you said, you have done different things and it felt awkward, or you were drunk or you are worried. I remember that. I have a strategy I can tell you about.

I have a few goals.

1. Don't give them an opportunity to make me feel awkward or reject me.
2. Keep the tension escalating if it's there, if they like me, or if I like them.

If they acknowledge me, I will acknowledge them, but I try to make sure I am doing something. Am I walking somewhere under time pressure? Am I talking to all the other people at the club? I have something to do and I want to portray that attractive vibe. Don't just go over and say hi, that's lame and awkward. You are a man with a plan. You got shit going on. You could go over and invite her to a party I guess. She just happens to get lucky to see you en route. Especially if I see a girl out at a club, I will first try to talk to as many people as I can before I talk to her.

If she just doesn't visually see you, you could go over and tap her so she knows she missed you and keep going. She can follow you or call after you. But don't stop and give her all the power.

My new thing with girls is they should be giving me their number, calling me, coming after me, asking me out etc. If they are not totally into me, then I will keep looking for other girls. These girls don't sound like they are very much into you so don't put yourself into a situation where you are pursuing them more and they can reject you.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 11:44 am 
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Thanks Reality - great advice, hard to know what 'normal' is when i'm still working on inner game and trying to go from beta to alpha. You're right I think the 2 girls saw me as random dude they made out with once, made out with 1 with no talking at all lol, so they weren't interested further.


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2012 6:14 pm 
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adjective : conforming to the standard or the common type; usual; not abnormal; regular; natural.

"Made out with" can have two meanings, the first being you fucked and the second being you merely kissed/snogged them. Unfortunately in your case I think you mean the latter but both situations are nothing to sweat about.

Kissed/snogged: Who cares? we do this as kids and it is completely NORMAL so act accordingly. Be flirtatious again, pick up from where you left off and try to fuck her (I assume that's why you kissed them in the first place?)

Fucked: Awesome, well done. If so she knows the deal, this is completely NORMAL so act accordingly, if you want it you might even be able to get repeat business.

It is an inner game thing acclimatising yourself to these situations, but the more you do it the more "normal" it becomes. It is all just steps you have to take toward growth. Would you be worried if you saw a girl again whom you had a conversation with? Im guessing no. One you held hands with? One you exchanged numbers with? One you kissed? One you fucked? One you wanted to fuck one night whilst drunk but sobered up, realised it was a 5 at best and left her there dribbling from the crutch?

Practice my man, practice. It makes everything the dictionary definition of normal :D

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