An HB9 that had shown strong IOIs 3 weeks ago when we started to hang out (with a group). Now I see her every day on campus, but we only have a 5 minute conversation and she shows very little IOIs.

What do you think I should do next?

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Thanks!

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About 3 weeks ago, I started hanging out with a girl. We went for dinner (with a group) and went to a party. Both times, she showed strong IOIs, and by the end of it, we shared a cab ride where she had her head on my shoulder and my arms around her.

Following that, we haven't had very long conversations. We would see each other every 1 or 2 days at university, but never have more than a 5 minute conversation before either she or I left to do whatever we were doing. It died down gradually, and I think it had to do with my lack of reaction to her flirting (though I did a little).

She took my cigarettes to 'try to help me quit', and would give me a couple every day when we met at school. I think it's her way of making sure she sees me every day. I would text/call her to ask where she was, and she would come to where I am to give me my cigarettes, and then she would leave after a 3 minute conversation.

I'm wondering what my next step should be. Should I not see her for a couple of days and pick it up from there, or should I continue this trend and hopefully have a longer conversation to lead to a 1-on-1 D2? Her IOIs have definitely diminished from before.

Thanks!

How about you start acting?
You say it yourself, you don't flirt back...
You don't take action?
Go for it, make a move.

I've been in this situation at least 4 times now with different girls (in the past few months), so would love a bit of advice.

For the next time I see her, how should I 'flirt'? Any examples?

Thanks!

Yo man, flirting just goes with the flow, it is natural, thats how it should be. If you are relaxed and conftorable around her you should be flirting with ease. I had hard time closing, going for the n/close and k/close, but at one point you just have to go for it and not give a fuck! Just do it, bassicaly that is the corre foundation of the whole game.

Hope you will take action and never miss a chance. Good luck man