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my town is kind of small, and if i go direct to a girl she will be like: this guy is creepy,need to escape from him...
indirect works much better, and for direct game you need a big initial dhv, so she need to like you in the first moment when she sees you....a big initial dhv that i don't havo.
These are the reasons why i like more indirect game.
Im reading now the rules of the game and i want to start this 30 days exercise. But, no one knows a good daygame opener ?
I life also in a small town and "Indirect Game" unless you execute it perfectly or you only ask for directions and stuff then is very very creepy.
There is nothing creepy about being honest with a girl and telling that you want to talk to her because you find her attractive, cute, interesting, etc.
Even if they reject you at the moment which is very probable, they'll appreciate your compliment and honesty, and you'll gain some trust for further times you see them...
Now if you ask a silly question that you do not care about the answers and you change topics like crazy and you talk nonsense... yes you'll stay longer in the set, they might be kind of entertained and a bit puzzled, and if you are good enough you can trick them into giving them a phone number and even steal a kiss from them, but once you leave you'll become the weird guy who just talks randomness... I was stupid enough to start with indirect and yeah very fast I started to gain fake success and started to impress other guys... But after leaving the set, or next days girls wanted to ignore me completely or to use me as the entertainer of the group and make fun of me.
I promise there is nothing wrong and creepy by being a man and showing it by telling girls that they look attractive... when I was doing indirect long time ago girls that I opened before, use to hide from me...
Now with direct even if they rejected me harsh on the first time, they sometimes come to talk to me if they see me again. IF they do not accept your invitation at the moment it doesn't mean that they'll never talk to you again...
Big initial HV...(thinking about that BS is what lowers your HV)
In direct game girls will reject you because:
1 they are in a relationship or 2 they are shy and scared at the moment. Just be cool with their rejection and you'll gain a lot, for future times you see them.
Are you able to listen? are you able and willing to understand another person?
Are you able to make someone smile? Are you able to make someone trust you? Are you able to make someone feel comfortable? Are you able to make someone feel unique? Can you share secrets and keep secrets?
My guess is that you can and that is very high value.