About me:
I already had a journal once before. This is my second which I am gonna do the right way. I wanted a clean slate in Pick-up. I felt like I had stalled out and wasnt getting anywhere at all. Its a lonely feeling of helplessness and frustration almost like your running in circles. I am into University Game and Day-game more than nightclub game because I'm not 21 and I dont drink alot so clubs really dont appeal to me. At this point I'm pretty much determined not to become the 95% of people that quit this. This journal will help me do this. In my last journal I was focused on game as a whole not just the key pieces. I'm now going to build my game brick by brick. I'm also trying to get 20sets a week because according to DJ fuji (famous pua), thats the only way to be successful.

My current objective is to study:
Nonverbal/cues
(inner game too but thats a constant)
I'll be spending atleast two weeks here

Set-1 one set
Random girl in a parking lot. I had bombed a test that morning and wanted to approach.
me-Hey, your beautiful i'm Great-1
her-I'm "boots"
Fluff and the conversation stalls
her-"Umm I gotta go to my car,bye"
I walk to class, shes right outside the door across the hall lmao I blew out

Nonverbal cue improvements
- I approached with my eyes down
- I didnt smile nearly enough
- I broke eye contact
- I ended the handshake quickly and briskly

Polish (already knew her)

This girl thats attracted to me I met last week was in the hall. I stopped to talk to her and put my self at the freind 45 degree angle

NVC (non verbal cue) improvements
- didnt smile enough
- stand closer and more frontal kino escalate

set 2 (one set)
I see a girl sitting alone at a table and I approach. I talk to her for a little but I'm so caught up trying to entertain her and bullshitting that I fuck up and do 90 percent of the talking.... Great-1 STFU and listen . Just read 60s guide on micro escalation... I do talk wayyyyyy to much gota learn to kisten

NVC wins - held eye contact
NVC improvements
- smile and laugh more
- find a way to kino across the table
- always sit closer
- see if she'll hold leg contact maybe...idk
Shit test- "your a great bullshitter."
Responded with "what meee nooo I'm telling the truth (i was talking about riding a bear)

Body language of the alpha
~head high
~chin up
~hands out in the open
~hands not protecting/covering crotch, chest, face
~chest out
~smiles/grins
~eyes not darting around
~makes eye contact

Body language of the attracted
~leaning in
~plays with her hair
~smiling or laughing when nothing is funny
~blushing
~pupil dialation
~holding eye contact
~closing proximity
~mirroring

Also learned that there should be an element of rewarding to the body language
If she leans in, you lean in. Basically show interest when she does.
Kino: systematic escalation through touching, kinda feeling each other out. The best IoIs are compliance. Goes from low to high. I'm trying to study the Di Carlo escalation ladder and it pretty much goes from

1)hand touching
2)torso
3)legs
4)face or hair

There is incidental (non romantic, indirect) and overt (direct, romantic). Never understood it but the over stuff on the ladder is 10 seconds. I assumed that you hold hands for a while like a relationship...wrong

Wednesday
learning more about kino and body langauge
~alpha male takes up space
~touches more people

kino
~the general rule on kino is that you must break it first. If shes breaking it your leaving it for too long

morning goals
-not allowed to look down
-look everyone in the eyes
-touch everyone you talk to
-as the conversation goes on linger the kino

wednesday continued
damn good day. got an approach in! got an A on a test and spoke to some hb's. Last night I watched poeticallyskuacs body language show on alpha males before i did the morning review. Today I looked everyone in the eye. I tried my best to keep my head up and my chest out and just went to work. People were loving it.
Most male body language just shows that you are a healthy mate. You gotta put your best foot forward.

Why eye contact is important:
-communicates confidence
-allows you to see a persons complete reactions
-shows that your a MAN
-men respect you and women know you'll put them in check
-really is the portal to someones soul

I have a Class with an hb 7/8 on MWF. Shes very pretty but not as much because of her physical charicteristics as a whole. Shes a 7 but very thin, maiden, petite bodytype. Cute round face, hispanic, nice long flowing hair. I personally like women with a little more meat BUT she has an amazing personality. I generally think that she is a beautiful person. After class she comes with me to the library. I will refer to her as SUZY CHOOSY As we are leaving we see a friend of mine another HB. Petite body type but an extremely sexy face. She has red hair, nice full pink lips, delicious brown eyes and a cute smile. Hb8 easily maybe 8.5 She used to have a crush on a freind of mine but he wasnt feeling her cuz he's a rotc square. I will call her PINK.

me - Oh hey
pink- hey
me- come with us we are about to go get food from the book store!(not a request)
pink- can I go print something first
me- no (jokingly)
pink- i'll come after okay (compliance )
I noticed that when you tell an HB to do something she is more likely to do it. DONT ASK, your the man, you tell her! If she objects , fine, but you have gotta be a man and be a leader. let demmm nutzzzz hangggg

We go to the bookstore and Suzy is upset because the chips she wants arent there. I grab her and hug her and recommend a second. (I was trying to assert dominance and reasurrance aka "be her rock") I tell her that since she dragged me with her she HAS to buy me some teddy grams. I was kinda testing her because normally its the guy buying stuff. (role reversal) She complies and then pink comes. We end up talking about stripper and both are knee pointing at me. (IOI). I felt really alpha with both women on my meat. they are both holding eye contact, I'm leaning back. LIFE IS GOOD! I noticed that Suzy was getting a little reserved so i put my arm around her chair while talking to pink. As we leave I notice that pink gives me the full frontal hug and her arms drag around my side as we leave (IOI). Suzy has a class in a building across the parking lot and my car is on the same side as that other building. As we part ways, I grab her hand pull her to me and hug her full frontal.(caveman a little)

Later on that day I'm at the pizza buffet and I see a girl I met at a party.
I go sit with her and her freinds and we all talk . They smuggle pizza out the buffet. IN that interaction I made a couple mistake body language wise.
I was so focused on keeping eye contact that I.
- didnt shake her friends hand on meeting them
- was leaning in when they werent (too eager)
- didnt high five or kino any of them during the interaction till the end
-In the begginging I sat far away from the girls
As we were leaving I gave them all hugs goodbye...freind hugs from the side...YUCK!

An Hb comes into the cpu lab. I cant find ways to escalate because shes far away *quickie*

missed oppertunity
I missed an oppertunity with a 3 set while at the mall

approach #3 (one set)
Girl at the apartment gym, Ive been eyeing her for a min. So i walked up to her went direct,"hi your pretty I'm great-1"
I had to ask for her name (iod) the conversation stalls and I leave

Improvements
-I leaned in again while she wasnt
- she was on the other side of the treadmill i shoulda got closer (microescalation)


Wins- looked for job, A on math test, improved body language

Random thoughts
You gotta be a man, women are attracted to dominance. Dont be a puss approach cute women. Stake your claim on them through kino. Also dont ask for shit, tell people to do shit. I also learned that when you pull a woman closer to push for a milisecond first. When you pull something it resists so if you push momentarily she will come closer to you naturally and unconsciously.

materials used for so far:
microescalation pdf from 60
brad p's field journals (alot of threesomes and advanced techniques not using much of it)
escalation ladder and ramp by di carlo
alpha body language by poeticallyskuac
compliance ladder by chief (outer game guide)
kino demo by mystery

all of these can be googled or found on youtube
happy hunting

thursday morning
Watched some Justin wayne pickup videos. I'm wondering if I should use false time constraints.
body language goals for the day
-dont lean in early and be needy
-stop holding my hands in positions unless its steeple

Thursday

Missed oppertunity A hb 8.5 I talk to is sitting alone. I dont go talk to her another chode does.
Its the little things like this that really seem to miss on, I gotta go for it.
-just take the damn shot

An Hb I know walks out while I walk out and we begin talking. Shes a blonde girl with a lil underbite. Green eyes. Very very fit with a real nice tight body. I will refer to her as "b-fit" (blonde fit).
She is holding eye contact. Asks me if I'm going to lunch today. I say maybe but i'm on my way to the library and she sees someone else she knows. We all head towards the library and I do the "hand hug" thing I always do to get kino. She complies and I hug her goodbye.
- coulda been a lil more playfull with my kino
- I also gotta smile a little more

Approach #4 black haired hb 9 (one set)
I see her and go for it. I asked if i could sit there , she doesnt have a choice cuz i just sit down. I shake her hand and begin fluffing. The conversation stalls a little but i play it off like i'm doing my work. I continue to talk to her. she gets her stuff ready to go. I tell her she cant leave because "I was about to be really charming and funny" she laughs we hand hug and she jets.
-try to get more intimate with the kino

I go to the lunch room and see a lil hispanic hb thats in one of my classes
I go for it and begin talking to her. Shes eating it up laughing at all of my lil jokes even the unfunny ones. I start talking to her freinds to soothe the obstacles. She tells me shes seventeen but turning 18 in two months. I tell her shes too young pat her on the head and bounce.

approach #5 (3 set)
me and my boy leave the lunchroom and go to micky d's. We walk in and I see a brunette hb 7 with a nice ass. A 2 hb 5's a brunnette and a blonde. Me and nice ass make eye contact. Paimai! I tell my bro that when they sit down we are sitting with them. I ask them to sit down but I already am grabbing a chair before they answer. I introduce myself to all of them and my wing BigMike sits between me and nice ass. Hoe move. We all shake hands. We fluff. I teach her the hand hug. I folded my straw wrapper into a circular shape and ask her to marry me. She complies and we hug. Things are going great and niceass is feeling me. I ask her type. She pulls out a picture of her deceased ex-bf(r.i.p).This is where the grinding halt comes. I say i'm sorry and bigmike says i can cold read. They all want me to guess their types so i guess the two 5's. I take niceass's hand and say "i just wanted to hold her hand" lmao. I get it wrong on her. I go back to niceass and ask her. She describes him which is exactly like her ex bf. They are hairdressers and i tell them i can refer them women because they cant do my hair. I try to #close them all but niceass says get her number refering to brunnette hb5. I get it but shes not who i want. After that we continue to talk about country dancing. I tell them we should all do it. Niceass ejects saying shes gonna go home this weekend but that I should go with hb5 brunnette.
We end up talking about big butts. I try to get niceass to show me hers but she says no i'm not gonna stand up and giggles. She then tells me to check her out as she leaves. She stands up to go and i say it aint that big. .
-I was preselected, she kept trying to deflect I gotta find a way to beat this
-I let fucking bigmike split me from her
-I shoulda kept holding her hand when i did the proposal thing
-The hug sucked, i gotta find ways for more intimate hugs
-I think ima start saying big hug and go lower on the back, more suggestive

Later on that day I go for a walk and see two hb8's that live in my apartment complex across the parking lot. They are on the balcony. Theres a latina and a brunette. I will call one "lor"-latina and one "virgo"-brunette. I ask them to go walking with me and they comply. we walk to a park nearby. Its dark and we cant see. I am hugging both of them and putting my hand on their shoulders telling them i'll keep them safe. Lor is saying deep things that I enjoy so I am rewarding her with hugs. we sit on a bench And I get close and try to microescalate on lor. She goes for it a lil and sometimes leans on me. As we leave and walk down the dark path i try to take her hand but she doesnt grab mine back (iod). We go to a restaurant and a couple other apartment complexes walking. She keeps being wishy washy. Sometimes giving compliance and sometimes not. Big cat and mouse game. Eventually i just give up but i never ask for verbal compliance. as 60 says. If you try to physically gain compliance, but microescalate the women never really completely reject you! so you can continously sarge on. So she'll just keep hanging out with me with no stages of awkwardness. This turned out to be a 6 hour adventure btw I find myself increasingly surrounded by women its kinda gratifying.
-I gotta go for more kino oppertunities
-need to follow the DEL to escalate the situation
-memorize the del
-dont reward IOD's dont neg out IOIs

Friday
The hb i sit by in class seems distant. That probably cuz she found out about my gaming around campus. Oh well idgaf gotta sarge on

approach #6
A decent looking hb walks into the lab while i'm writing this. We talk a little and i go direct. She is in a hurry obvously and hightails it outta here. really just trying to get more approaches i am wayyy down.
-coulda made more eye contact

Improvements so far
- Find a routine to get intimate kino
- probably need better conversational topics
- learn more push pull as far as kino and body language goes
- better reward and punishment body language
- smile and hold eye contact when direct

Routines so far
hand shake
hand hug
hug reward
thumb war
writing words on girls legs

Thoughts
Push pull, reward punish. Its all the same thing I gotta become better at it its a key theme in game. If a girl IoI's then you IoI as well and vice versa dont fuck up the trend. Also game is the systematic escalation of romantic situations. After a hug push off. always simulate rejection

Read a little bit about conversational structures but thats not this week

Saturday
I've been studying alot of push-pull stuff and tension stuff. Mystery said something along the lines of "Its not a man working to attain a woman, its both of you working to attain eachother". I honestly think one of my biggest problems is that i'm just too easy to attain. I never really push pulled that much and in every successful relationship I've had with a woman I have had some push pull in it. Its great food for thought. I dont want to play hard to get, I want to BE HARD TO GET. Like a mindset. Why does this woman deserve me. Food for thought

Goals for the day are
make her work for me
push-pull a bit more

missed oppertunity

#7 hb-8 (one set)

I was working and a girl came in to shop. Hb-8, Eva evangelina face, hispanic, short hair and a cute smile. A nice balanced body probably B-cup tits and a decent ass. She was in the mens section and I tell her "Sorry mam but those wont fit you" she says no they are for her brother. We fluff but i talk to her like a customer not a woman. She leaves when we cant find her brother size. My manager tells me i fucked it up because she specifically said "they are for my brother" she coulda just said they are not for me. She was into me!

She goes to another store and COMES BACK. She says the other store had less options but they are a muchhhhh bigger store and I know they have most of what we have, plus more. I'm not fucking this one up again. I flirt with her and say "what are you doing right now" she says nothing and I get her to agree on an instant date. I tell my manager to let me leave and he says. Naaaa its to busy sorry man. I tell her i have to wait for 5 but she bounces. Poo!
wins- went for the instant date, #close probably wouldve flaked
improvements-micro escalate

Later that night we go out
couldve hugged some girls I knew better. I got introduced to a cute girl on crutches. I couldve escalated better.
-keep rewarding for compliance, with kino

#8 hb-7's (idk how many it was a big set)
We are in a bar and I open some girls with my boy WetBlanket.
I hold eye contact and smile with the open. I also hold her hand for a moment on the handshake but. The conversation died and I bounce out.
-I ejected way too early
- hold hand even longer, make her break

#9 fine ass girl
I just go direct tell her shes beautiful. I put my hand on her shoulder and she didnt even react. Wierd! and keep about my day (i need to count it)
-just keep talking stop ejectinggggg!!!!

Wetblanket is a shitty ass boring ass wing. I let his negativity and AFCness get me down I wanted to open more sets but he's a total afc and just wants to leave. Its litterally the biggest night of the century. Everyone is out tonight celebrating. I gotta keep my state right and stay in sets. I cant play to open. I need to play to close the deal. I need to master logistics. Also I really suck at holding tension. When that awkward uncomfortable tension comes from lasting touching, eye contact, silence. I just break and ease the tension.

Watched a video by david wygant about seduction. Great guy hes a dating coach though and hates the pickup community cuz he thinks we are assholes and liars. Oh well his loss. He said the main mistake guys make is not knowing what they want. So i'll post my list and goals for pick-up http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4SyrLtN4Nc

QUALITIES
1)beautiful
2)adventurous
3)intelligent
4)witty
5)Layed back
6)funny
7)optimic
8 )ambitious
9)confident/secure in herself
10) DTF
Thats my type. Notice the only physical characteristic is beautiful which is highly subjective to ME. I honestly could care less if my freinds find my dream girl attractive. I have reached the point where I never ask anyone "bro is she fine" or "would you fuck if you were me". Thats childish and stupid. Associate with women YOU find attractive. Also if your only into physical characteristics then your dream girl might be a total bitch! Thats lame and I hate pretty girls that are bitches and stupid.

My goals for pick-up
1) lose it
2) be able to pick and choose the women I want to date and hang out with
3) Have a steady supply of fuck buddies
4) become comfortable with myself and women
5) gain a deep understanding of the female perspective
6) Have a threesome
7) fuck a midget (idk always wanted to try)
be able to sleep with 2-3 new women a month thats like 24-30 a year roughly
9) be able to change someone elses life when i get good
10) find a woman that makes me want to stop pick-up ..AWHHHHHHHHH

Seems like theres sooooo much too learn. Gotta stick to it piece by piece. I'm pretty proud of myself. Today I went put into the field for the first time. I mean going out with the purpose of sarging! It was alot of fun. I love pick-up and I just cant see myself quitting anytime soon. I think its changed my life.

Approach #10
My goal was just to sarge for an hour. I took like 10 minutes of that hour changing and then bout 5 driving. Went to a nearby bookstore and saw a girl sitting alone at a table. Went direct and nice. She was laughing at what i was saying and holding eye contact. We talked about alot of things and I was trying to build the tension. I did the hand hug and held it for extra. And gave handshakes and hugs for compliance and agreement. I tried to instant date her but she was studying and didnt want to go. in the begginging I false time constrainted her ,it worked. I knew she was gonna be a flake but closed her anyways. On instant dates i shoulda tried for more compliance earlier. Like moving her in the venue first and then trying to bounce her out. I said i had to go and she asked me questions keeping me there. That lack of validation, the willingness to leave at any moment...chicks can feel it and want it. Thats why I feel like a false time constraint works.
- lean in when she leans in
- go for the "big hug"
- move her in venue first before big things
- I need to slow down my speaking and look more natural
- I slur my words sometimes
- act excited to raise the energy and good emotions
- keep that tension up, escalate it

I noticed from watching pick-up videos, like Justin wayne that when these guys hold hands with a woman they dont go for the laced fingers. I also realized that I have never really gotten resistance with a regular hand hold but if you try to lace em up you might get some. My personal theory is that women reserve this type of holding for already in a relationship its high compliance.

Unfortunately guys I only reached half of the recommended sets. I'm also not gonna fap for a month starting today. Hope I can make it!

week 2
Today I woke up and was reading some of 60's stuff. He was talking about looks and being ugly. He said something along the lines of the moment you realize that you are ugly, the moment you are liberated. Yeah your ugly but you shouldnt give a damn. Your a man you'll never be prettier than a woman. Women are pretty man are for lack of a better word manly. He said you should adopt the "Idgaf" attitude. Now i'm one fly dude, I love dressing nicely but its not for women. Forget women i dress well cuz i love to. As long as when you walk out the house you think you look as attractive as you can and you love your own look, you look great. All women expect from men is to be manly. Be dominant! I was looking at womens fantasies and apparently the #1 fantasy is being "ravaged by a stranger" not raped but man handled, dominated. Women are attracted to confidence and dominance. Be a leader."A woman forgive you for being a man, but she cant forgive you for being a pussy" I tossed that around my head all day. Think i was a pussy till i discovered the community.

I got to school early today and decided to sarge. You always gotta open yourself first, so i talked to some random dude to build momentum.

Approach #1 one set
Walked up to a girl in the hallway who had a bomb ass body. Blonde 8 Went direct and introduced myself. Called her out on being shy, that made her open up. It was a funny conversation but the sexual attraction wasn't there. I didnt escalate the vibe. I mistaked just sitting there quiet for building tension. Coulda #closed but i dont want numbers i want lays.
-tension is built from eye contact while silent
-keep that tension up

approach #2 one set
Sat next to a girl in the cpu lab. hispanic hb6 Kept the kino on the hand hug up. she was laughing and I was chilling with her. I think she was feeling me. We were laughing and having fun but the tension wasnt there. I complimented her on her smile but didnt #close her either cuz I think she woulda flaked. I did microescalate though and ended up sitting closer to her. gave her good eye contact too.
-create sexual tension damnit


Went to the bigger university to sarge later on that day. In the middle of the day i was talking to Suzy choosy giving her good eye contact and creating the tension. She could feel it and started to blush. She wanted me to bail her out and stop, I dint. Also told this girl in the workout class to workout in my group because her partner wasnt there. Its little opportunities where I step up that are rewarding. I tried to bounce her to eat after class but she declined. NBD

Anyways went for street game. I feel like this is game in its purest form! At one point I wanted to stop but i ignored the pussy in me. He's the reason i'm not getting any.

Approach #3
Pulled into the parking lot to begin my sarging. saw a cute girl searching for something. Asked her what she was looking for and she said her car had been towed. Lol That threw me off we talked for 3 minutes I told her she was pretty and bounced

Missed oppertunity
saw a girl on the phone....can i do this...Went for the "is that an important call"..pussied out and let the words fall uselessly and kept walking

missed opportunity
saw a girl walking with big tits. Was gonna stop her. Didnt COME ON GREAT-1 WE CAME HERE TO SARGE.

approach #4 one set
Stopped a girl. beautiful brown eyes. She was actually happy i stopped her. dead in the street....the rules of society...NO LONGERRR APPPLLYYYYYYYYY!!!! I fucked up and asked her if she had a moment to talk in the middle of our conversation. Dont do this because she will just go on with what she was doing.
-stand closer, micro escalate
-dont ever ask her if she has a moment to talk, if she is talking your good

approach#5 one set
Girl was on a bench in a phone. Going for it! I interrupted her and inquired if the call was important! She said yes. I told her she was pretty and bounced. She smiled and looked confused, that doesnt happen often.
-coulda been more dominant


approach #6 one set
Was feeling great. Approached a girl on a bench who was dialing on her phone. She was very apologetic telling me "i'm soooo sorry i have to make this call, i'm trying to get a job i'm sooo sorry"
-felt like i speak to fast in the beggining, need to work on speaking slower


I find myself with pretty girls more often. I am more relaxed around them i just gotta talk slower and escalate. Escalation is attractive. This week ima for sure get 20 opens i gotta turn these into fullfilling relationships though.

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Approach #7 trout faced woman with fat ass one set
i open her in the workout room of our apartment. She tells me her name and puts her headphones back in. I leave because i'm not actually working out. I think if my game was sick enough i could pull when not working out in there but SPAM they just think i'm some type of player. I see her the next day and she ignores me completly. Shes pretty ugly, in fact ugly girls are normally the harshest in my opinion. They get a kick out of rejected guys because it doesnt happen often ??? idk and idgaf
-be even pushier into the set

tuesday

took the oppertunity and sat next to a group of girls i know in class. Payed off, made high eye contact. Also got into a micro escalation mindset with a polish girl I know. I actually thought. I'm gonna get as close to this girl as awkwardly possible. sexual tension!

approach #8 two set
A hb-6 and her hb-6 freind are in line waiting. Shes eatin my shit up. Making great eye contact. I tell her to come sit with us and shes hesitant. I kino them both. Reward them with hugs. In the end they dont come sit with us.
-be even more touchy feely
-flirt harder
-get into state

missed oppertunities when i went out sarging. Gotta get the first one out the way so you can keep rolling.

approach # 9 one set
Finally got the nerve to approach one girl. She was sitting at a table in the coffee shop and I sat with her. We made good eye contact at one point i even thought we were mesmorized but I think i over did the seductive listening thing and she bounced ME out the set. I think that was a shit test i should have told her we cant stop talking.
-be pushier
-more assertive
-dont take the silence thing to a whole nother level
-GET INTO STATE

missed oppertunites in the gym, I HATE MISSING EM

approach #10 one set
Stopped a girl outside the gym and went direct but she went back to her workout and I let her. This is where pushier and assertive comes into play when the women try to go back to what they are doing.
-assertive and pushy
-still not in state

approach #11 one set
Girl walks in. I ask for her name and hug her instead of handshake. I compliment her and let her walk out. I think I could have got the kiss had I gone for it. She comes back but doesnt give me her number. I said umm before asking and didnt make eye contact when setting up the day 2 (doing homework). I had to reestablish the connection after she came back which was like an hour.
-dont let em leave
-make that ho say no!

later a girl walks in thats fine but I know her. we talk for like an hour about everything. I am not in state and I dont escalate. The conversation turns into something about her boyfreind. If your horny that wont happen. I gotta find ways to get horny while talking to women. They will only see guys they want to fuck.
overall improvement is just to get horny

I GOTTA GET INTO STATE thats my goal for today. Wednesday

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I was gonnna document everything that happened the past 5 days but its too fuckin much. I ended up getting all 20 approaches in fact I had probably like 25. Its not too hard getting the approaches now I am added verbal structures to my game and trying to escalate to see how fast and far I can get lays which are my big goal.
I have been doing good last week I got 6 numbers and I had 2 or 3 hangouts with girls none of which ended in a kiss close. Its a brand new week but its thanksgiving week and Idk if ima get the approaches cuz i will be surrounded by old people all week on the east coast. Maybe I should walk around the big city...idk anyways.

Today I had to cut a bitch out. The polish one cuz she never wants to have a day 2. I told her she wasnt filling my requirements and she said fine. I deleted her number. I was wondering if I had been too harsh on her but naaaaa. I'm not a nice guy! I might be a good man but i dont ever want to be a nice guy. Read double your dating by D deangelo and read 60's method. I am currently reading jugglers method.

approach #1
Went indirect on a girl sitting in the hall with great tits. Didnt turn into anything good. I didnt even get physical. I generally dont like indirect

Approach #2
Approached some girls in starbucks. The cuter one was very adament about the fact that she had a husband. Ended up being a good convo though. I want to get a milf under my belt. that would be cool.

All and all a good day. I realized that if a woman breaks your requirements or doesnt meet your standards you dont lower them or make exceptions you cancel her. I feel like i'm a pua which means I have INFINITE options. If a woman wants to talk to me she has gotta fit me.


My goals for this week
1)stop laughing so much
2)add some C&f in
3)figure out the triangular gaze
4)dont compliment a woman on her looks cept for at the beginning when I approach, or after we fuck when she deserves it.

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A few things:

1) Can you link to the 60 YOC stuff? I know very little about him but I know he's all about escalating so I think he's probably pretty similar to me and I'd be curious to see what he's got.

2) Don't overload yourself with material. Believe when I say the only thing that really matters is actually putting yourself in front of a girl. It will all make sense eventually. Too much can studying can be counterproductive because in the end, everyone I've ever met who is good with girls develops their own style. Some of it may work for you, most of it won't.

3) Laugh because something is funny and you want to laugh. I've been told I have infectious laughter. It'd certainly be a shame to not let it out but I think of it this way: since my laughter has always seemed to get such great reactions, it has to be earned. I laugh when someone legitimately says something funny. But don't laugh as a way to break tension. Don't laugh at your own comments. Don't laugh as a nervous reaction. Don't laugh just to get someone to think that you are enjoying them. But laughing in and of itself is not bad. You are, in essence, qualifying a girl on being fun to be with when you actually give her genuine laughter.

4) Triangular gaze is more of just up and down gaze. Just let yourself stare at her lips when she's talking. Make it obvious. Lick your own lips. Go back to her eyes and repeat. If she catches you, tell her you can't stop staring at them. Don't do it too much or for too long, but definitely let it be sexual.

5) Compliments is a tricky area. You can give compliments in mid-game, but there are a few caveats:
--Don't give them unwarranted. That is what needy little bitches do.
--On anything that could be sexual, replace complimenting with some sort of escalation statement. For example, on Saturday I got a BJ from a girl with some of the sexiest lips I've ever seen. It was awesome. I literally couldn't stop staring at her lips, they were so plump and amazing. But I never told her she had great lips. Instead, after some "almost kisses" I threw her into a wall, made out with her for the first time, and pulled back just slightly so our mouths were still very close and said "I've been waiting to kiss those amazing lips of yours all night." Then I leaned back in, but instead of kissing her, I bit the shit out of her bottom lip. She loved it.
--If you do something like the above, and have a girl really horny and a lot of tension built, throw in one non-sexual, genuine compliment several minutes later. Look at her, and very genuinely say "You have incredible skin/You are so adorable/You're an incredible person." This is something I've never seen anyone say anywhere else but every time I've ever done it, its like I just added a week's worth of connection building. You can visibly see the girl melt and surrender. Its incredible. Then go back to the regularly scheduled scumbagging and escalation that got her all hot and bothered in the first place.
--Lastly, don't be afraid to validate a girl with a compliment if she has actually earned that validation. A lot of people speak out against validating chicks, but the fact is that if someone likes you and then they do something that you like and you tell them about it, they end up feeling great! That's just common sense. So if a girl is into me and she says something that I really, truly find to be really great, I will say "That's awesome. You're awesome. Like seriously, I think that is just amazing." Then I might playfully add in that we are a match made in heaven or I might wink and say "You just might be too good to be true" and then squeeze her thigh "just to make sure she's real." This is huge in low-key situations, such as day game and on dates, when the sexual/physical element is a little more subtle and there's a lot more verbal interaction going on.

The point with all of these is you compliment and validate from a position of power and without ever letting the sexual element disappear (or a bit of a toned down flirt in the case of the last point/low-key settings). This is a huge, huge, huge part of what goes on when I talk about being able to get girls to fall for me super hard and super fast. So don't discard compliments, but be a sniper with them.

@daniel balboa, true i'm just trying to get as good as i can as fast as i can!

Only got 1 extra approach last week so i gotta do some heavy lifting next week. It was a girl on an airplane and she wasnt really feeling it at all. Lately i've just been reading SOOOOO MUCHHHH STUFF and watching sooo many videos its kinda overwhelming. Also everytime you read something as you progress you get new things from it. My body language is decent but not great so I'm still trying to focus on it. I wondered what I wanted to be like as far as personality wise and I always pictured myself as a gentleman. I personally want to GQ up my personal style a little. I also like really intelligent women. So my goals for the next week and greater Pick up.
1) work on milking the intro
-smile
-walk and talk slower and louder
-dont let go of a womans hand first
-dont let go of the hug first
-use seductive eye contact (slightly squinted eyes, little smirk)
-lean back!, i lean in way too much

2)qualifying
-reward compliance
-dont compliment women on their looks only traits unless its sexual (credit to DB)

3)dont early eject

4)dont FAP..untill i get laid.

happy hunting guys.

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Also always maintain an aloof frame like you fuck tons of women. You always do this, you could have whoever you . If she implies implies that your chasing her be aloof and reframe. be a lil cocky!

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