Been seeing this girl few a week or so now, no f close yet due to not getting round mine due to busy social lives but she is interested for sure.

Basically texted her today and asked if she wanted to meet up on weds but she said no because she had to prep for an observation (shes a trainee teacher) and asked me how my parties were on Friday. I said they were good and I met a girl there who reminded me of her (wasnt interested in this girl but she was good banter) which is true, and asked her how her lunch went with her auntie. And that's it, no reply for two days now which is unlike her.

Think I might have pissed her off by saying I met another girl. How should I play this? Should I just leave it until a few days before the weekend when she was supposed to come round mine and get in touch then?

You know what, I bump into this from time to time, and you can drive your self crazy or you can just pick up the phone, call her, and try to talk your way into her panties, at the end of the conversation you will know exactly where you all stand. Then on to the next one.

Yeah, basically, just call her. BUT. If it is out of character to do that, and you normally just text - I'd just not bother texting her now and carry on with your life in the interim. If she ignores you, you just ignore her. It'll drive her crazy, until she eventually does text you.

Argh. Texting a girl about another girl you met. Why why WHY?!?

It's spilt milk now. I guess I would ignore her for several days until it becomes clear that she won't be reaching out to you. Then I'd text or call her and ask her out and pretend you had no idea you said something that offended her and just act normal.

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Bizarrely she texted me back, saying she couldn't believe there was another girl like her. I ignored it and asked her something else about the weekend. She then said she would help me out with something over the weekend but is pushing me for more info about this girl. Should I just ignore her or tease her by saying something negative about this other girl (like she was a shortass)

She's basically now 'prodding' you to get you to compliment her (tell her she's way hotter than this other girl, or do something any AFC might do'.).

You don't want to do that really. If you're already going to meet her, it's cool. But compliments and validation are like crack cocaine for some girls. It's actually best NOT to give them their fix, because they'll keep pushing you to do it, and it drives them mad.

Don't neg the other girl - it sort of negs you. I don't know whether you should keep her a mystery or just be like "yeah, she was pretty cool." and maybe just be a bit casual and flippant, as if it's nothing.

But like I said, not hugely important as long as you guys are meeting up physically later.