Here's the situation guys. I'm 19, because I know sometimes age has a lot to do with it. She appeared to be a similar age. HB9 (not sure if this matters), she looked a mix of hispanic and something else, nice long hair, about 5'3, and a NICE body. I'm a good looking guy as well, I'm told that by everybody. I participated in a mock trial today as an expert witness (anti-gang expert, LT. for the police dpt, and I knew my shit. DHV?), and I noticed her in the jury. I kept giving her glances to see if I could get some eye contact and on two occasions she was looking in my direction. I'm not sure if she was looking directly at me or not. I planned to open her when the trial was over.

There was only one problem. The trial ended, I got into a conversation with the prosecutor. When our conversation was over, I looked around and she was nowhere to be found. Went outside of the court room to check near the elevators and she was already gone. I couldn't be fucked to go run after her. She was the juror that read the verdict and she had to state her name. This is how I know I can open her on Facebook, but is it a good idea? How would I approach this without seeming like a stalker? When should I add her?

I was thinking I could wait a couple of days and then send her a friend request telling her that she popped up on "People You May Know" and I thought she looked familiar, but I'm sure this is used a lot and I'm not sure it will start the type of conversation that I want. Are there any good Facebook openers for this situation? I have no experience with online game so any tips on how to transition to getting the number from Facebook would be golden as well.

Thanks in advance.

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Stalker much.
I cannot imagine how this would go well.

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RSDTyler

Lol this is what I thought. There's no way I can wait a week or two and tell her she looked familiar or something?

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That to me, seems just impossible to believe. If I were going to do this, I'd be totally up front. Tell her, I saw you at the trial, and thought you were smokin' hot. I thought you noticed me too, but you were gone before I could get the chance to talk to you. I remembered your name from when it was listed, so I tossed in facebook and there you are.
Then some type of "Maybe we can chat", just not sure exactly what to say. Perhaps someone else would have a suggestion. But I think pretending you happened across her is not going to work.

But now that I think about it, I'm always telling guys, "Stop worrying about random girls you will never see again", so I guess, why not! Go for it! Perhaps I'll try it myself one day.

She doesn't know any of the same people as you, so worst case scenario, she goes "Ewww, creepy" and then tells her girlfriends and they giggle at you over the interwebs. I guess no real harm can come of it.

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RSDTyler

Yeah that's true. Do you think I could just open with, "Hey! You were at the mock trial, right?"

Do I have to even let her know how I found her? Would it be better not to bring any attention to as long as she doesn't ask?

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