Basically it was a huge AFC Mistake that I made. Clearly we were Friends with benefits we would hit up parties and fuck by the end of the night. We could still hit on other people and make out. Thing is I never realized what we were until I finally lost her..(Friends with Benefits) she wouldn't think that we were something else and would lead me on a lot saying she wouldn't mind getting back into a relation ship ...She didn't want a relationship because she loves the single life and her last boyfriend abused her and hurt her mentally. So its hard for her to trust men again.

We would never really go on dates even though i payed for most of the meals. It was just a big confusion of what each other wanted. In the end i ended up losing her because i gained to many feelings for her. I would get really Jealous and even if I tried to control it. I still failed and became all controlling and moody...She knew that i wanted a relationship. So she decided to end everything because she was hurting me too much.

We ended off on a good note and still talked. She made out with one of my buddies at a party 2 weeks after that and I didn't talk to her for 2 straight weeks. She started texting me again after that. This time she seems flirty, teasing like she misses me. But she has no courage to say that. She is never straight up with anyone. She tells me she has a hard time showing interest with anyone including me which was such a challenge to figure out what she wanted.

The crazy thing is I work with her. So I see her once or twice a week. Is their any way like getting her Jealous that will help me bring her back to the way things are. I do miss her and if she just wants a Friends with benefits then ill do it cause i don't mind.

Well, the first you should do is that you are over the situation. My recommendation would be to maybe go after one of her friends, or maybe not friends but someone she knows. Let her really know that every feeling you had for her is gone, now she has to work to get your attention. You should act like a busy man, with tons of girls just waiting for having some time with you.

If you give that impression, the most should go alright. The best thing overall is to go for other girls, nothing is better than having fun with game again. Game some other girls forget about her for a while. She is not going to forget you, thats for sure. Maybe talk about some of the girls you are "doing". Show that if she wants you, there is a waiting line.

Totally agree to that. In that two weeks i have been paying attention to other girls at my work and a couple I even asked to go on dates with and they agreed. Figures why she started messaging me recently. She would always become jealous or really dry when she saw that. But never admitted to it.