Met this girl 3 weeks ago at a party, things clicked very fast, added her on facebook -> then got her number -> Set up a day 2 and today was our day 3.

i'm not gonna go through the whole process of texting, day 2 etc etc, all that is important is that we kissed very intimately on our day 2, about 20 times and she kept holding her head against my body, kept grabbing me etc etc.

So i just came back from our day 3 and things went absolutely perfect.

Met with her at a spot, gave her a big hug and broke the ice by telling her a joke (about our day 2) she laughed and grabbed me really tight. So we're walking in town and she keeps holding my hands, ever now and then we took a little stop and she'd go for the kiss, we went to the shop, she took me upstairs where there was nobody and went for a kiss, constantly. she keeps coming close, grabs me, we pretty much walk like a couple. I keep push-pulling, flirting with her and it worked well, she kept getting shy, blushed, then hold me strongly and so on. What i did notice is that I didn't really show my emotional side (Dunno if it's good or not) with that i mean, You're so great, I really like this. etc...

Every time we'd make out I'd start talking about things again and make her laugh, but i never gave her an indication that we're on. So as the night came and we both head home i grabbed her from the back and said, I've got a question for ya, what's up between the two of us where she responded with:

''what do you think?'' - smiles
'' I dont just kiss you for fun'' - smiles

I'm not stupid and i do realise that it's pretty much a yes, but it was a bit in-direct so i'm not 100% sure if we are actually in a relationship or not. After she got her ride home, she texted me with the nickname she gave me and a

My experience has been that if a girl really wants a relationship she'll usually tell you just before or after you fuck her.

My last long-term relationship was initiated because the girl told me straight up when I was about to get some "if we're going to do this, you're going to have to be my boyfriend".

I thought about it, and since she was a smart, good-looking girl who never played games with me (always returned calls, answered texts, actually paid for my meals at school) I realized she deserved someone like me in her life and vice-versa.

Besides, if things don't work out, you can always break up later -- better to regret the things you did, than the things you didn't do.

The real question to ask here though is -- what do you want? Decide, and then make it happen.

Day 3? I'm guessing your young. I wouldn't propose just yet. LOL

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Cant see what i said wrong, probably me. I'm 21.

Thing is, never been emotionally interested in a girl, mostly just for fun, closes and fucks.

got a message from her sealing the deal. Guess being a bit more open emotional-wise was a good decision (not to direct though)

Wait, from what I've read, you didn't fuck her yet did you? I would say you are NOT in a relationship until you actually do fuck her and take things from there. This relationship is starting inversely, deeply emotional, then sexual. Be sexually aggressive, tell her you think she's sexy. Don't apologize for being forward. Make the move and don't apologize.

To tell you the truth you may not think that you are in a relationship with her, but she thinks that you are in a relationship with her, so be careful. Other than that I like the advice the other PUAs gave you.