I k closed a girl last night. She happens to be very innocent. I went to feel her up and got stopped. I played it off well and she didn't seem to be upset. I never been with a girl that's innocent a k close for me means a fclose on most occasions. How do I proceed with a girl that's not so eager?

How old is this girl? It sounds like you gotta slow play her a little. Don't go straight for the f-close. Start with make out sessions and start talking to her about sex. You basically are going to have to talk your way into her pants, not grope your way in.

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Girls kinda young she's 19. I know she is a virgin so sex is either outta the picture or alot of work. I get what you mean about having to talk my way into. Is asking her why she is a virgin maybe a good way to break the ice for sexual talk?

This is common LMR (last minute resistance).

As puaninja says, slow it down a bit, even freeze her out a little.

At some point she’ll tell you to stop or pull your hands away or give you some other sign that means “NO.” This is normal.

The key with a freeze out is that it can never look like you're pouting or doing it because she stopped you. To do so would make it seem reactive and ultimately lower your value and turn the girl off.

When faced with this, just STOP. Stop all physical contact, Jump your ass up, go play a video game. Or just roll off her and just lay there and close your eyes like you're just really tired. When you do this you remove physical contact from the girl,usually the girl will miss the contact and re-initiate, when that happens you can start making out with her again.

But it's best to always try to be the one that stops her first until she’s insanely horny and practically begging you!

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Yea, this is basically turning into a how to de-virginize a girl thread. It's not that she's shy or playing games....she's a VIRIGIN.

You basically saying something like "Most girls your age aren't virgins anymore." Then that will prompt her to start talking about it. Maybe she had a strict upbringing, or she's afraid to do it, or she is holding out for marriage, or it just hasn't happened. You'll need to find that out. It could be that she is jus waiting for the right guy and the right situation. Chances are that guy could be you.

Then when you start talking about it with her you just convince her that sex is no big deal, that everyone does it, that you know how to make it not hurt, etc. Basically just tell her whatever you think she needs to hear in order for her to agree to let you do it. Sounds bad, but this is actually how most girls lose their virginity. Guys feeding them a line of shit.

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