There always comes a time after you've been talking when she asks you why you haven't bought her a drink yet. I'll usually deny and then she'll give me the pity "But now I have to buy my own! *sad face*"

What is a good way to DHV to that madness?

"I dont buy bitches drinks" - JA

However I usually say, "you get this round and ill get the next"

a few ways to handle this that are fun,

get her to make an animal noise, and add that you truly want to believe you are standing next to that animal, depending on if you don't like this girl or not it can be pretty fun for you and degrading to her

-oink like a pig and I'll buy you a drink, what was that? do it for real... I want to feel like I'm standing next to a real pig

^ this is specifically good for girls that are giving you the vibe that they are trying to hussle drinks and don't actually like you


the next one is for sorting girls you are unsure of, just be like,

-I donno about that... A drink?, are you good at making out?, if you're a good kisser then I'll buy you a drink, but you have to be good (that's right, you trade a makeout for a drink just like she is a kissing prostitute, if she won't do it, don't buy her a drink, problem solved, waste of time averted)

-OK! LETS GO!! be super enthused, ask her what she wants to drink, then order her a water

I will never buy a girl a drink who I've just met.
I always go in with an I'm the prize kind of mentality.
Every time a girl asks me to buy them a drink I just say sorry, I don't do that. If they ask why, just a cocky I don't need to works fine.

This weekend I actually stole a girl from a guy who was buying her drinks, just walked right in and asked when she was going to sleep with him. Said some things about how it was embarrassing and how needy it was. Long story short she actually gave me one of the drinks he bought and she came home with me.

LOL I love this post I'm going to put these to work next chance I get. Thank you.

Or you could switch it up.
Oh yeah! Have you done a london tequila shot? No? How conservative are you really?!
Drag her to the bar counter. Order two tequila shots. and go -shrug-
Get a lime in her mouth. Do the shot. Bite the lime in a way you are kissing her and go. PUUUU eewwww!
Then make her do hers

This way you make a kiss look bad and then she will want to validate it again. Putting your progress so much faster now

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Love the animal noise bit!!

A line I like to use a lot if I get the vibe a girls using me for a drink is I say

"I only buy girls drinks that I'm going home with... ".

Lots of ways to go here ...if I actually want to go home with her and I think there's a shot I'd say...she says something like ok well maybe...I say.."prove it" and ask for a kiss

Or "I only buy girls drinks I'm going home with and I'm not sure if I want to take u home yet or not.."

This is the perfect time to run the 5 lies routine

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FAIL PROOF PICK UP LINE: excuse my, im sorry to bother you but my father beats me, can i have your number.

Huh? You're not old enough to buy a drink yourself?
What a pity :S

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I'm at a bar talking to a girl I'd just met. After chatting for a while she says "So aren't you going to buy me a drink?"
I say "Why should I?" and continue drinking MY drink. She feeds me some bullshit about how I'm supposed to buy a girl a drink if I like a girl and blah blah blah. I cut her off and say "Those aren't very good reasons. It sounds a lot like prostitution. I don't pay for things like affection, sex, or someone's company. Why don't you try that lonely old guy down there at the other end of the bar?"

She stopped bugging me to buy her a drink. I went out to smoke a cig and never said a word to her again. She's a dumb bitch who's trying to milk me for drinks and tries to milk others for drinks. I no longer had any respect for her.


At the strip club I often here girls ask "Can you give me a dollar to play a song" As they rub their titties up against me. I always reply "You obviously don't need a dollar to play your song, you've got more than enough on you already." while looking at the money on the thingy strapped on her leg. Then I go back to talking about whatever the fuck I feel like talking about and NOT giving her my money.

Maybe she'll ask me to come and watch her dance later. I don't always feel like it, I'm comfortable at the bar, so I usually say "Nah, I'm fine right here. I can see from here." She'll go up and dance and I look when I feel like it, but if she's not doing anything special on the pole i.e. shit I can't do myself [Seriously, I'm just a guy who's played sports, not an expert pole dancer and most girls at the strip club do some really mundane boring ass shit on the pole]. I'm not really paying much attention if she isn't doing anything special up there.

This is how I always act at the strip club and strippers always seem to come over and talk to me despite me never buying them drinks or giving them money. One of them I hung out with outside the club, we didn't have sex or anything but we still hung out for the day.


Girls in the bar asking you for drinks... fuck that shit. Tell them no and don't buy'em a drink ever. They need to understand that what they're doing is total horseshit.

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"Hm! Maybe if you get ME really drunk first, I'll get more generous!"

I blurted that once, and it's become my favorite. It actually hasn't ever failed me (knock on wood). I like it because it doesn't turn the girl off, make her hostile, or make her feel I'm judging her. It just sets a firm boundary in a fun, gentle way--I like that. It matches my style of humor, so most girls laugh when I say it, and it makes things playful.

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What do you say if she then says "I thought you said you were getting me whatever"?

just hold the frame, any way you want

her: I said vodka
you: water it is!

her: I said vodka
you: drink this water, its better for you

her: I said vodka
you: what do you say about water?

her: I thought you said you were going to get me a vodka?
you: *mymic her voice* I thought you were going to get me a vodka? WATER IT IS!

her: I thought you said you were going to get me a vodka?
you: oh, why did you think that? it sort of looks like you are getting a water

her: I thought you said you were getting me a vodka
you: confusing isnt it?

her: I thought you said you were getting me a vodka
you: here drink this water instead

if you want to hook her just lead until she is out of that, I wanna be serious and challenge you on everything and be skeptical and have no fun, mode

just dont react and enjoy yourself and keep leading, have fun, nothing she says is a big deal, if she trys to flip the frame into two people argueing, or guy defending himself, or serious conversation between two people that dont like each other, and you start reacting to that, then you are not leading, think of everything a girl says to you when you first meet as a joke, you are just meeting her and seeing what she is like, not trying to marry her, not doing an interview for her, not trying to get her at all costs, just seeing if she is worth talking to, or worth walking away from and enjoying yourself

if she starts getting all verbally abrassive, it is just a testiment to her not being able to handle the heat, imagine what dating her would be like if she cant hang

Okay, nice.