Hello there

so this is my second question for today....

About 2 years ago I was dating this girl... which seems to be really cute... and after we broke up... we were like friends... but not hanging out... we would like just say hi when we run to each other... so a couple of days age.. I run into her and she was really happy to see me... and we she wanted to hang out with me... go for a coffee or something... So my question is.. What can I expact from that... any tips... 'cos I don't have much experience in these kind of situations. It would be really great if I could you know... get her again... not like a girlfriend... but like makingout/sex etc

and any ideas about how should I build the attraction in this case... how should I(I don't know the word my english is not that good ) how should I react/talk/anything?

You guys who have experience in this field write me in details... if you can... about what should I do ( :

Thank you very much... Lots of hugs and kisses

I think the best thing you can do is basically just be interested in her enough to show you still like her , ask her questions like " remember when we got candles and snuck down the lake giggles .. That's just one of mine but use memory's of good times and be honest . And be touchy compliment her on her much she looks good .

This just happened to me. Hadn't seen my ex in over two years. Met her randomly out in public and invited her on a date the next day. We went out for dinner and I kissed her in the movie. She let me, but she distanced herself otherwise. I tried to make out in the car and she started crying because she said it was weird since we had been broke up and now it was like we were back together. I tried to arrange some more dates so I could try to fuck, but she basically blew me off.

I think it comes down to whether or not they are ready to jump back into a relationship with you. Especially after that long apart, because the old feelings are for the most part gone. And all that's left is these awkward kind of nostalgic feelings. But I'm sure this varies from one person to the next. I say give it a try and see what happens. Keep on sarging regardless.

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TL:DR

don't do it!!

haha pumpington your posts are always awesome this one made me smile

Don't do it man! Getting back with your ex is like buying back your own shit at a yard sale! I made the mistake of getting back with my ex about 2 years ago and it was a total waste of time!!

Well i'll have you know one of my exes is one of my fuckbuddies now.
I thought it was going to be as easy as that, but homegirl already started to talk about feelings so i guess i'm going to have to cut her off.
Anyway, I say, don't do it bro. Unless your a sucker for Deja Vu, i mean there is a reason she's your ex.

D.P

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don't do it man!

I got my ex back (though I'm still not sure if I want to be in a relationship with her again).

I think you should do what Bills said and just play it cool. Be relaxed, and have a good time without being sexual - just be her friend. She's going to wonder why you aren't drooling all over her, and this is only going to make her want you more. Then tease her a bit and neg her (make sure you're playful and not an asshole).

Later in the night, you isolate her, look her in the eyes, tell her how it was good to see her again, and kiss her.

If she rejects your kiss, then play hard to get, and start seeing other women. As soon as other women come into play girls start to compete over you.

Just make sure you are focusing on other women / your own game at the same time. Don't put all your effort into getting "this girl" back.