I've always wondered about what I consider a very strange phenomenon. When I'm out in public, I notice that I get checked out by the HB 9's and 10's far more than 7's and 8's. In fact rarely do 7's and 8's look or give me the time of day but 9's and 10's check me out all the time! Also 9's and 10's seem much more receptive toward me as well. Why? I'm a pretty good looking guy but I wouldn't call myself a 9 or 10 by any means. Possibly an 8 although I'm on the short side. It brings up two questions. First, is it possible I just underestimate my own looks? Second, I've always heard 9's and 10's can be more starved for affection because most guys are too intimidated to approach so they often never get hit on. Hmmm what do you all think? What's your experience with the two groups?

what makes you think what a 9/10 is attracted to is any different then what a 3/10 is attracted to, they all like brad pitt just the same
people are people, a girl who is very physically attractive, is the same as a girl who is not, the only real difference is the more physically attractive the more likely she has a higher self esteem and more viable male options to choose from as well as gets treated better by men in general when interacting

you will never know anyone until you meet them how they are, and it's really silly to try to lump girls into some personality category based on how they look, go meet a few 9s and tell me that they are all the same, some will be attracted to you, some will not, some will be indifferent, some will be rude, some will be friendly, some will be introverted and some will be extroverted, some will love attention, others will get too much on a regular basis and not enjoy it

it's all over the place and everyone is different, in terms of guys, it goes like this, only about 10% of all guys on earth can even cold approach, and the vast majority of that 10% suck shit at it, most guys will approach average girls cause they think they have a better chance with them, but really you are attractive as you are attractive and a 5 will find you just as attractive as a 10, it's all in your head, the only difference is the 10 is more likely to have access to more penises and more attractive penises within her dating pool, since more guys are interested in sleeping with the 10 then the 5, so it's more likely to assume that the more attractive the girl the more likely she is to not be available, but pretty much thats really the only assumption to assume and even so you have to meet her to find out for sure

a complete smoke show is also likely to not even get ''cold approached'' by guys as often as an above average close to average girl since most guys assume ''she's too good for me'' and feel insecure, however that doesn't mean she won't get attention from guys, ohhh fuck no, intimidating to approach yes, but if a guy has an excuse were the ice is broken and gets to interact with her through a social circle or work or something, you can guarentee he will be wanting to latch on to the hottie if he feels he gets anything back, it will be ''HOW'S YOUR DAY, LOOK AT THE WEATHER, CAN I GET YOU A COFFEE?'' all day long for a really hot girl, guys tend to pussy foot around hotties more though, less likely to initiate, less likely to escalate, no entitlement, more likely to react and seek approval or get insecure and nervous, they are just regular people like anyone else and it basically works the same for girls, more they like you, more nervous, intimidated and reactive they get

but saying that it has something to do with how they look is sort of silly, the more you approach the more you see it doesn't matter, you can go out one night and make out with a fake tittied hottie and in the same night catch shit from a chubbie uggo who assumes you are hitting on her just cause you start a convo with her and she blows you the fuck out, it really doesn't matter, some girls will like you, some will not, and the quality of girl you get, depends on the quality of girl you try to get and how comfortable you are with going after it

it's all in your head, just like a 2/10 guy will find jessica alba hot, so will a 9/10 guy, if you can get with one girl, you can potentially get with them all, it's all in your head, if you want 9s, you just have to start approaching 9s

First of all, there are far more 7s and 8s in the world than there are 9s and 10s. You may not be noticing all of the 7s and 8s noticing you. 9s and 10s are used to ignoring the majority of guys they come across, so when they come across a hot guy, this is a rare moment for them. It could also be that you giving off a vibe that you are interested in them and they are picking up on it, whereas you tend to overlook the 7s and 8s.

Btw, just because a girl makes eye contact with you doesn't mean she's interested in you.

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