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Now how am I going close this chick here is the situation I've sneaked outside and I'm hanging with the bar chick and we have been flirting and chatting the previous times I have been there . Now I've given her my number and. Chased her down on Facebook now I'm guessing she is used to this is there some different that I can do that is going to give me the edge ?

persistence is an option she is a hb9 and its doing my head in
Well you gave her your number, you did get her number. The thing is that you do not go after a girl for to long time, then you are only wasting your time. There is no man in the world with 100% success rate. Why are you chasing her down on Facebook? Sounds like you are to desperate for getting with her.
Forget her, there are tons of other hot girls in the bar, if you really want her. Then show that you are social and can get all the other girls. That you are the price not that you feel honoured talking to her. She should feel honoured even just be talking to you, you are the price not that random chick you are half way stalking on Facebook.
What i am starting to do now is that i rather go to fast than not going anywhere at all. For me it is better to loose a set than get another female friend or possible boyfriend zone. Got enough of them already, so i am always going for k-close/f-close. If they are not interested fine, their loss. Thats how the game works, not possible for even the best player to get a perfect score, but he can get close.
Live life and do not give a shit about just one girl.
And one more thing. Look in your friend group, are they pulling you down or are they wanting you to grow up with you, are they hungering to get better. Say if you got lucky one day with a HB8/9 the other night, are they calling it luck? Trying to pull you down. If so they are seeing you getting better and trying to pull you down. They are not worth it then. Just loose some of them, if they do not want your best why should you still be with them.
Game is not only about getting the girls, it is also about transformation. From being a silly boy to being a grown up man!