i wanna make a point, up until 1 week ago i used to frequent these clubs on a regular basis, i used to be very active in the pu community and used to teach pu in strip clubs (i dont do it anymore) i used to have a lot of fun in strip clubs and have dated a few girls in the clubs (including one married one)

recently ive thought about one thing. i was using it for practice as you talk to girls you can sexually escalate and they approach you. i even became friendly with some of them and even spoke to them on their personal facebook account, then i realised something all they wanted was in my wallet, even the girls i personally knew. they would talk to me on fb then it came back to her saying 'miss you, when am i gonna see u again' then i would suggest somewhere other then the club then it would be no i cant, however i am working this day, then they would expect me to go to the club, i ve met doped up girls, drunk girls, porn stars even girls giving me cards for massage parlours.

now the truth is i know why guys get suckered in to the strip clubs, the girls are extremely gorgeous however they are extremely high maintenance, and some are druggies, drunks or hookers.

to be honest i think it has done my social life damage as i am much more comfortable in strip clubs and not at all comfortable in a bar or nightclub anymore,

i would say if you wanna to one go, but beware that it is extremely unlikely you are gonna sleep with you, they are simply a businesswoman wanting your money at the end of the day its a job, i would say that you gotta look past the makeup and fake boobs and see them for who they truly are not the aura that they present.

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I couldn't agree more. It's hilariously easy to get their phone numbers and Facebook usernames. If you're a decent looking young guy, it makes it even easier yet since they're used to a bunch of redneck truck drivers who haven't showered in 6 days hitting on them. But at the end of the day, they're master saleswomen who know exactly how to get your money.

But.. but... Dean Cortez said I could get stripper girlfriends if only I paid $3,000 for his first class course on stripper seduction.
Are you suggesting this was less than a likely prospect?

What's amazing is how many strippers you could bang just using that $3000. No need for skill when you've got a few thousand to throw at a girl who's already naked.

i'm glad you finally figured that out.

One way to get the upper hand on certain strippers is to be kind of mean to them. Those girls typically respond to that if you do it right.

One time I had one sitting with me at a table. Hottest one in the joint. My buddy was on the other side. I whipped out my cell phone sent a text to someone I knew would immediately respond, they did. Then I told the girl I would give her 5 dollars if she would go away b/c another friend was coming to take her seat. It was a lie, but I wanted to see how she would react if I sent her away.

It worked brilliantly.


They are accustomed to guys being real nice to them b/c they are hot. When you have discipline to turn them away, it gets in their head a bit. This particular night there were about twice as many dancers as patrons. You can have an opportunity to talk to her again later.

Another problem I have with it is that even though it can get you comfortable talking to ordinary girls in the field, they can lead you down a bad path. If you have money or they think you do, most of what you say to them they will treat it as cool. So you have the opportunity there to develop bad habits. You could say to the average stripper, "can I lick your butthole" and a lot of them will turn it in to a joke. Most ordinary women won't.

I could see dating a stripper if you met her outside the club, but if you meet her while she is working then she's always going to look at you as a paycheck.

Might as well just target the hottest stripper in the joint and when she comes up to you, ask her straight away if she fucks for money. Don't even waste your $10 on a lap dance. All they want is your money anyway, so see how far they are willing to go to get it. They are taught to get you to pay for tons of lap dances, then private dances in the champagne room, and then more money for a handjob, then more money to make you finish, then more for a blow, then more for a fuck, then more for a threesome. That's how they milk you out of all your money. But if you go in there knowing they are all whores and you just want sex, then treat them the same way you'd treat a hooker on the street.

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You know how I get strippers?

I go into the strip club with my buddies... IGNORE ALL OF THE STRIPPERS for a bit.

We go shoot some pool and have fun

Then we start gaming after an hour or so

I only ever viewed strip clubs as a boost to the beginning of the night.

Pay in, get countless approaches and beautiful women commenting on how hot you are and how if they weren't working they'd bring you home. It's probably the cheapest way to boost your self-confidence and put you in your A game for the rest of the night. I just don't delude myself into believing there was ever anything there but it still has an effect having women hang out of you.

you could say in a sense a stripper is a hooker that wont fuck you, the thing is strippers know what effect they have on guys and thats how they make their money, they will throw you fake ioi's and treat you like your special however watch as soon as they go away and find another twerp they will do THE EXACT SAME THING TO HIM. word for word action for action the same look anything.

i know some guys will ignore my advice but heres a bit of advice if you decide to give it a go.

-try something different- the girls are used to being hit on and theyve heard it before,
-dont talk about the club unless she brings it up even then change the subject
-make them talk about their personal lives eg college, hang outs etc
- if you going to number close either get a card or (heres something original number close in the private booth they can see you but not hear)
-if they as you is it your first time there say yes
-make your target jealous go for dances with another girl

but like i said before, dont go into one unless its for entertainment (stag night, lads night out), if you want to go in to hit on the girls please dont its not worth it, your just gonna end up poorer living in fantasy land, if you wanna hit on hired guns go for bar girls, shooter girls even shop staff, not strippers.

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I use to work at a Stip Club so I can give it to you raw...

Here are a few things to know:

1) The great ones are suppose to lead you on. That being said...

2) Most of these girls work odd hours wich does not really give them chance to meet a normal guy. So where do they meet their BFs? Work. Many of the dancers date a customer, dj, bartender, owner, all of the above at one point or another.

3) Regulars. Strip clubs have regulars and often girls have their own customers. Sometimes she might end up dating a regular other times all he is an AFC with money getting strung along...

4) Working Girls: Then there are the girls that are working... you know, working girls.. these are usually found in the more ghetto clubs. Wherever there are working girls there will also be pimps and drug dealers which get many of the girls in that environment.

5) How to Know if She is into you: So if you have been 'talking to a stripper' for a couple of weeks and she still wont hang out with you outside the club she is just not that into to you [at least for right now]. If your hanging outside the club, you buy her things and pay some of her bills and she is still not sleeping with you, turn in your man card your getting taken.

Its Very simple. If she is into you, she will hang out with you -wont be some long drawn out game- and, gotta love strippers for this one, they will sleep with you pretty quickly.

i m not being funny but, we kinda build up this aura of strippers, the truth is they do what we do back to us but with the knowledge that they most likely arent going to sleep with us.
you watch them they open, they kino, they tell stories they sexually escalate, then guess what they say 'wanna go for a dance?'. basically your being sexually frustrated then asked do you wanna see me naked. its like foreplay with no sex.
the other part is we build this up this image that they look perfect. try this go to a strip club during the afternoon and stay til about 7-8pm thats when more girls start. however just before then they girls will come in to the club to start work with no makeup and street clothes. look at them then look at what they REALLY look like before they start their job, and 8 outta 10 times youll say average at best.

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My friend from highschool's dad was this obese ex-cop. He made good money from owning a business. No woman would date him though, but one day out of the blue he was dating a stripper. Then my friend showed me some naked pictures of her he had. It all seemed very strange. Shortly thereafter they found his dad laying half-dead in the doorway of an abandoned crackhouse. The stripper had set him up and lured him there and her other boyfriend blugeoned him in the head with a hammer and then stole his truck. Long story short, he soon died, and both of them were caught and sent to prison forever. But keep in mind that all started with the guy thinking "Wow, I think this stripper likes me!"

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Hey guys, good topic. I can see here a few people giving advices about how to game strippers etc.
I have two questions:
1. Is here anyone who had sex with a stripper for free which he picked up in a stripper club using these techniques ?
2. Why strippers, is there something special about them ?
I am genuinely interested guys.

I fucked a stripper, but met her on OkCupid.

Seemed no different than gaming any other girl.

She was good at venue switching and taking me to a sex location though. She was more of a natural than me.

Not sure what the big hype about strippers is. They are the scum of society... Almost at the same level as prostitutes. I would never date one, let alone fuck one.

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