For the last couple months, I've been getting tons of numbers. Every time I go out, I at least get a number, somtimes a make out, somtimes establish an emotional connection.

I've also dealt with a ton flakes, blurring, staling, ect.

I've figured it out...I text as opposed to calling, and this is almost always sure death.

Unless you gt past a makeout, or really do somthing special to be remembered or trigger emotion based on her thinking of you, after the initial meeting, she's gonna lose attraction for you because you're no longer in the moment.

That first reach out is you're duty to re-establish, re-open and reconnect and re-attract. you will NOT do this by texting.

Its so important that the first time you make contact after the meeting, its with a phone call. This reduces her chances of flaking, greatly.

I think after meeting a new girl, the only time a text is alright is if it is used as a short attraction spike.

Texting w/ girls you already know, however, like co-workers, I believe that has the opposite effect. Its ok to text those girls, as long as you follow the rules.

But DO NOT text new girls you meet. You will be just like every other guy. TRUST ME.

I hate that I have to agree with this because texting is so much easier and less pressure. But it's true, calling is better in every possible way, at least as far as increasing your level of success with women.

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Im looking at my follow thru success rate, and it definitley corresponds with favoring the call instead of the text. Can't be a coincidence.

I find the only exception to this rule: SHE text you 1st!

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