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PostPosted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 11:19 am 
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If you're trying to master every aspect of game as quickly as possible, yea stay sober. If you wanna have an overall good time have a few drinks. I have a tipping point where I go from feeling good to feeling drunk, and I just ride that point all night.

Being an old fart ( 29 :lol: ) the BIGGEST thing I regret when it comes to alcohol is the hotties I lost because I ended up so drunk I could barely stand up. Had a HB9 mino-channel tv presenter in the bag midway through the night, kept drinking, yep bad move blew it, HB9 stripper same story, and there was a few others. That stripper probably would've been the hottest chick I ever fucked but I blew it cause I kept drinking. Never again.
Not to mention all the girls you never met, because of the exact same reason!

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Alcool can boost you for sure. But the key is to develop a confidence which from within, not from alcool.


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Yeah, if you can handle the alcohol ok and it only improves your game, then great!

It's just not so good when you use it to overcome approach anxiety and then fumble through conversation haha


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I totally disagree with the whole "not drinking" thing. I personally do better in most things in life when slightly tipsy. I dance better, I am funnier, I have more energy, my thoughts are simpler and more efficient and I can do great speeches (seriously, I did my final uni presentation while wasted and everyone, including my mentors, loved it).

Plus not drinking... I don´t know, most people I know who don´t drink are actually kind of lame and take themselves way too seriously; and am sure 90% of partygirls would aggree with me.

Just make sure you know when to stop (I get accused by girls of being sober all the time), but a bit of booze is fine. Just make sure you don´t forget the whole didactic effect of the night and to always know what you are doing.

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Just make sure you know when to stop
Like just before a massive final uni presentation I assume you mean? :wink:


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Just make sure you know when to stop
Like just before a massive final uni presentation I assume you mean? :wink:
Ah, come on, I got really good grades on it! For real! Plus... What could possibly ever go wrong in the long term? *drinks hand sanitizer to make time pass faster at work*

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great you guys seem to be better with alcohol

now take away your anchor/crutch

your game is shit like every chode out there

GO OUT SOBER.


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I quit drinking for like 5 years with the exception of a couple of times here and there. Now I drink once every other month or so (got hammered for my birthday last night).

My game is worse now when I'm drunk, I use to think oh shit I have so much better game when I am drunk and in some perspectives I am that much more social which is really saying something but I am sloppier and a lot less attractive.

The fact is if you want to gain actual skills with women you won't do it drunk. Do you really want to have a crutch to get women? Do you really want to rely heavily on drinking to get laid? It is a sad situation when you can't just be yourself and get the girl, that is the point of all this, to gain those actual habits of a man who is talented with women.

Have I lost some girls because I was sober? Sure they thought it was weird that I could go around sober and be the way I am(I have a lot of energy). But I'd say I've lost a lot more opportunities with women by being way too drunk. It's best to be a guy who can just be there sober having fun.

I agree about having a few beers actually I have a couple of beers every day for health purposes as well. It's very healthy to have a couple of drinks not so much to have a lot of drinks.

After you get skilled with women sober to a point it just becomes automatic, then you can do it drunk and it will just be natural.

I personally feel everyone should NOT get drunk when they go gaming girls as they start in this stuff because then you begin to think you need a drink to get a girl. If you can have a drink or two and limit yourself I highly recommend it, then you have the ability to look like your drinking as Drinks can be points of interest ("what are you drinking?") or points of "Likeness"(same drink/drink she likes) for a woman who already has interest in you it gives her an excuse to talk to you.

Don't drink and game, you'll just embarrass your self and have no idea what you did wrong. This is a problem because you can't improve if you aren't coherent enough to give yourself and honest report on the occasion. How do you know what area you are having issue on if you are all over the place? I mean I've heard the well I don't get like that and I laugh every time because we have all got like that even if we were clueless that we were "that guy".

Just my thoughts on reckless drunken gaming.

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My game is sometimes better when drunk but i prefere being sober,The night lasts longer, i know what im doing an can spot iois, i dont end up fighting it boosts my confidence.
Im sort of a guy who does`nt have a clue what my tipping point is I still get people coming up to me today telling me about a girl i banged in the toilet or a recent one on holiday coming out of the sea bollock naked saying right who wants some dick an some girl sucking me off behind a boat that im totally clueless about.

My worst one was some girl i saw at about 10pm in the bar went over completely blacked out came back to my senses at about 2am walking into some random house with a random guy an some girl he met clueless of any names they went upstairs we were downstairs She said too me im on my period but i really want to sleep with you (supposedly she told me this through the night) this was my cue to go for the kill took her upstairs banged her After it we exchanged numbers when i went to put her name in i just looked at her an she said you dont know my name do you, I said i havent a clue who you are to be honest she got pissed off went to sleep i walked home commando after spending 30 minutes lifting random couches up looking for my boxers an that haha fun story.

Next week i was talking to her mate she told me i was saying to her im not arsed if i have too wait ill wait 6 months for you haha totally clueless.

My advice would be knock the drink on the head it tastes like shit the hangovers just aint worth it the amount of hbs iv lost to being a first class dickhead with them is unreal.

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Drunk = being less inhibited socially

You going to drink every time you meet somebody new? Sounds dumb to me.


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