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Ok well i'm new to my High school, and I'm trying to be an Alpha, but all the popular kids are alphas and they already have HB's who flirt with them all the time. I know a couple of popular guys and a handful of HB's that I talk to a little bit. My question is how do I take the next step to getting to be popular myself while maintaining Alpha over the popular kids who don't NEED me as their friend, as well as getting the HB's to recognize me.
A lot of the advice you'll get or read about in the pick up community will be about how to be a pick up artist vs how to fit in socially and hook up with girls naturally.
The knee jerk reaction is "it's the same thing" no it isn't, you can be fairly "uncool" and pick up women, while you can also have great pick up skills and have a hard time getting in to social circles using them.
What I mean is, there isn't a lot more than meets the eye in a high school social circle. If you join whatever the top sports team is and excel, and then don't stand right or maintain eye contact properly you aren't going to be outcast or ignored. If your parents buy you a super expensive wardrobe and car and then you don't DHV the right way girls aren't going to think you're a loser.
What I mean is keep it simple, don't ruin your high school experience by trying to learn a bunch of pick up skills instead of just going with the flow, and getting in with the groups who are getting the hot girls. Hell it might be the Band geeks in your school, I have no idea. Trust me you are not lacking some magic social skill that will keep you from getting high school girls dude, and if anything trying to compensate for good old fashioned conformity (by learning pickup instead of fitting in) will be a regret.
Even if you think the "Emos are lame" or whoever has the girls, just shut up and conform, you'll have a better time.
That all said don't be creepy about it but:
1. Look others in the eye until they look away first when you first meet.
2. Smile when you talk to new people.
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3. Stand up straight (don't be a dumpy little teenager slouched over).
I'm not trivializing your question because you're in high school, these 3 things are all I changed (an older buddy told me them) and I went from no interest from women in high school to plenty of girls pretty fast. And I had a fucking mullet and wardrobe that consisted of tshirts and jeans. It was the early 90s I guess, but I looked like something out of Mad Max and still pulled chicks.
My problems started post high school, which is exactly why I am letting you know it's a different set of skills entirely being respected and cool post HS and mostly just basic attractive smile, eye contact and posture as well as fitting in the right crowd that works in HS.
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