Hey Players, I have been in the game for awhile now (about 1.5 yrs, so not that long haha). I am 22 and just started graduate school (in Canada), there is this girl. I have been going on dates and stuff with this other girl, but its not going anywhere.

Anyway girl #1 call her Girl. We are in the same classes (only two of them, we only have two classes this semester as we're grad students), her and I share an office together (with other people but they're never there so its usually just us), so I see her often. Well she laughs at my jokes (good sign) and she asked me to be her partner on a group project/presentation while we were in front of the class. (which i take to be another good sign, wants to be around me plus thinks im smart? and not embarassed by me?)

However, we don't like hang out other than at the University right now. I want to make a move without jeopardizing a professional relationship. We talk often, she's definitely cute. I have been described by women as goodlooking and I focus on my fashion, etc often. I am in a program with many ex-jocks and I'm leaner than they are so i try to focus on me being funny and a personality rather than every other jock.

Two questions: 1) Is she interested in me? and 2) how do I make a move without making everything awkward and messing up the professional part of everything?

Thanks guys!

Two words, ki no.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

How do I kino without being creepy?

Kino has always been the weakest part of my game.

you touch and don't make a big deal about it. Make it natural. Wait for her touch and then you get 2 minutes to touch back. Eye contact. not just eye contact but eye communication. Tell her you want to fuck her with your eyes.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

Huh? Do I get contacts that say "Fuck" on one eye and "Me" on the other eye?

Basically what is "natural" body contact?

Dude natural body contact is simple. When you are smiling and laughing after your joke lightly touch her and pull your arm away.

Start with shoulder and back touches.

Then escalate to the face.

Hands are seductive, learn to use em.


Let me know how it turns out

I will try to put this stuff into practice fellas, will keep you updated.

My biggest fear is not rejection, its making things awkward in our professional setting.

I get that bro, but think of it this way. If you don't try things you've never done you will always get what you've always gotten.

Thanks for the motivation. I reward her positive behaviour and reply to her cold behaviour with backing off correct?

The key to good kino is to do it with confidence. Just touch her as though she has been your girlfriend for three years. Make no hesitation and don't display apprehension. Act as though it is perfectly normal for you to be touching her and then act surprised and confused if she responds negatively to it. That basically gives her the impression that something is wrong with her for not wanting you to touch her.

As far as actual kino techniques, there are many. Remember, be talking as you start touching them. Run your fingers through her hair and tell her she has really pretty hair. Quick touches are good to use at first, that way you have removed your hands befoe she even gets the chance to tell you not to touch her. Tell her you like her ring and she'll hold her hand out. Lean in and pull it closer then play with the ring while holding her hand. You need to have a reason to be touching her so it makes sense and doesn't come across as random or creepy.


And don't worry about rewarding and punishing her. She's not a dog.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Thanks guys! I kino'd today for the first time!! Thanks for the motivation.

She was in our office when I stopped by for a second and touched her arm for a second when i made fun of her for copying part of my desk decor (i put up a list of assignments to do, then she did the same thing the next day).

It's a start for me

on her list of assignments to do you should on the bottom put your phone number and put "call this guy to take out for coffee."

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

Haha she already has my number, what about "Take Derek out for dinner because he's totally cute and awesome" ? Or is that way to obvious and direct?

So I wrote on her page (and I'm still alive); she hasn't read it yet, but thanks for the motivation! I'll let you know how she reacts.

It sounds a little too obvious and direct, but let us know how it went.