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PostPosted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 7:08 pm 
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So i got friendzoned after having a thing with this girl for a month, she went after some guy for about 2 weeks and I think he ended it. Then she drunk texts me last night, but she wasn't too drunk. No misspelled words or stupid sentences, I think she just drank a little.

Any way she texted me wanting to some conversation (me and this girl bonded really well and the conversations were always fun). I said:
"Rap battle me."

She said "I will never rap battle you, sober or intoxicated."

I replied "Your drunk texting me on a monday night? Rap battle me or I want nudes. Entertain me women!"

She said "I dont do nudes, and trust me you dont want them haha. I'm the one who needs entertained, this has been a shitty day."

I replied "I want the nudiest of nudes. I dont think you can afford my entertainment rates or my therapy sessions. I think your shit out of luck, unless you can trade me a cow kitty." (that sounds stupid, but it was an inside joke of ours from when we had a thing.)

She said: "Looks like we'll have to go back to the alley where we saw cow kitty then."

Then I busted out a rap with a couple inside jokes, she said "Hahaha that made my night"

I tried a little bit to get her to rap over text and when she wouldnt I said "your boring, i'm going to bed."

She didnt reply, but she never replies to goodnight messages even when we had a thing.

I dont know if I should have even texted her, but I had fun with it. How should I have handled this?
Also now that she's not going for this guy, what should I do in person?

And before anybody say's "game other chicks bro", I am. I was gaming others right when she friendzoned me. I like this girl, and I completely understand the mistakes I made to get friendzoned in the first place, so I would like to get a second chance.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 7:50 pm 
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So you want us to critique how you should've responded to a drunken text conversation full of inside jokes and pointless banter?

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 8:21 pm 
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No, I want to know what I should have done. I dont feel like I fucked up or anything, but I dont think this was the best route to go.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 10:01 pm 
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So i got friendzoned after having a thing with this girl for a month, she went after some guy for about 2 weeks and I think he ended it. Then she drunk texts me last night, but she wasn't too drunk. No misspelled words or stupid sentences, I think she just drank a little.

Any way she texted me wanting to some conversation (me and this girl bonded really well and the conversations were always fun). I said:
"Rap battle me."

She said "I will never rap battle you, sober or intoxicated."

I replied "Your drunk texting me on a monday night? Rap battle me or I want nudes. Entertain me women!"

She said "I dont do nudes, and trust me you dont want them haha. I'm the one who needs entertained, this has been a shitty day."
Reply: okay, then come over. I'm sure I can find a way to make your day better. =)

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 07, 2012 10:04 am 
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^^^this!

However if she doesn't want to meet at first then one suggestion would be variation of straw-man technique - I assume she knows that you know about her short relationship with the other guy.

PUA: I bet he was really great and would do anything for you blah blah (stuff no guy could really live up to lol)

HB: errrmm not really, he was actually a dick to me...

Let her offer all the negatives, you can re-inforce these, then remind her of sweet moments you guys had, then invite her to join you for drinks and a toast to - "this is a shitty world"..........

Good Luck


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