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| Bedrock | PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 6:23 am | |
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Location: Ohio | | I was talking to her on myspace and she gave me her phone number to hang out sometime. Im not sure how to approach this. I think we already have comfort but in this situation i dont know where to go from here.
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| JSmooth | PostPosted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 6:53 am | |
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Location: Nashville | | Simple call her up and invite her out! Example; "I'm heading to the mall with some friends, do you want to tag along?" Works best if you are already hanging out with friends. You aren't just committed to her. If she says No then you can say, "No big deal my friends and I will have a good time, later" and hang up. Secondly, she doesn't feel as akward as she would 1 on 1.
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| TrojanMan88 | PostPosted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 6:51 pm | |
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| Bedrock | PostPosted: Thu Jan 03, 2008 8:10 pm | |
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Location: Ohio | | ok I didnt call her since our conversation on myspace was still going. our conversation was basically about getting drunk. So I told her me and some friends are getting drunk this weekend and i asked her if she wants to tag along. I didnt really think this one out cuz Im not getting drunk so now if she says yes i either have to hurry up and find people to get drunk with or just tell her that its not happening but we could still kick it. I think i may have fucked up.
any advice on what i should do? cuz it might be a little hard to recover from this one.
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| AyBayBay | PostPosted: Thu Jan 03, 2008 8:12 pm | |
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Posts: 54 | | Well based on the convo, does she get drunk? If she does and you are against getting drunk, just say that your friends can't do it this week but instead you guys could go do something else (don't say something else, make sure you set up an actual place and time rather than stalling on wondering what to do).
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| Bedrock | PostPosted: Sat Jan 05, 2008 5:29 am | |
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Location: Ohio | | yeah she does like to drink. but i realized after i sent it that alcohol will probably fuck my game up so i mihgt have to cancel it. do you think i should just fiind something else to do with her?
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| MLTR | PostPosted: Sat Jan 05, 2008 6:06 am | |
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Posts: 65 | | right now, you DONT have comfort, you need to build up rapport by texting or IMing her, when you end the text or online convo, then mention the idea of meeting up some time.. but dont organise a date yet.. then over the next day or so, get sound to asking her to meet you, and just take her into town or something. build comfort by making her laugh and itll work
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