guys i wonder if you can help me. i met this girl and we hooked good. we have some good time and then she said she likes me and loves me. i met her parents, grandparents and other family members.

it seemed that we were made for each other. but then i looked for other girls as i felt something was missing. so at the end i broke up with the first girl and now i am with other girl.

we are hooking up good but still i am thinking its not the same. this other girl says she loves me too.

if i broke up with her...like i did with previous girl i dont know how will i live up.. i am feeling so guilty as both the girls came from a good family and love me...

how can i kill this guilt feeling..

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Shine

Well firstly both of the girls you are hooking up with seems to be more than just a hookup, more like a girlfriend. When you are hanging out with girls like this and the girls you are going out with, some of them fall really easy in love and say i love you straight away. The thing you need to find out what kind of qualities you want in a girl, make a list. Make a big fucking list (sorry for the swear word) of all the qualities, personal preference etc on how the girl of your dream are, if the girl does not match that just enjoy the ride.

But keep it clear to her, i personally have never sad to a girl i love you and meant it. I do not usually use the word i love you. If you already started looking for other girls while being with the girl you liked it looks like you are not ready to settle down. I think some of this is just fear of settling down. If the girls say they love you, you should try reading them. Both of them really likes you of course. But how deeply, some girls use i love you more than others. Some girls do not even use that sentence at all.

Look here, not everyone is made for everyone. Thats how the world works, humans are not really made for long-term relationships anyways. It also depends on how you did break up, was it over the phone then i would feel sorry or was it personal. If you really liked it in the relationship then why should you leave? Love is a strange thing, but overall i would say you maybe not ready to find the one right girl yet or maybe you just have not found her yet.

Try being honest with yourself, and them too. When you go to bed at night you will at least be content that you are not living a lie.

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Dear All,
Many thanks for your reply and help.
Shine

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