Just because something is impossible or incomprehensible for YOU doesn't mean it is for others.

Just because something is impossible or incomprehensible for YOU doesn't mean it is for others.

I was simply putting my way of thinking when it comes to validation. I only seek mine. And I validate myself by challenging myself in things that are challenging FOR MY STANDARDS, to others this might drive them crazy. I made the mistake of putting "No real pua" I should have put "for me"

No no no. I more than understand. You are a masochist. You enjoy beating yourself up. Stop.

Well that took a complete left turn.

Never risk hurting your pride by admitting you picked up a square block for the round hole. Instead, blame the fuckers who built this complicated puzzle, grab a hammer, and have a good go at it. The hammer might break and the psychiatrists at the funny farm might enjoy a good laugh at your expense but with some force, a square block might fit into the round hole; you never know. Dangling your tongue and drooling a bit completes the, "Yes, I am clinically retarded", campaign.

Straw man Kasabi at it again lol... chill dude. we actually making points here

What I wrote is exactly the way the World views you. . . which is why you are treated poorly by all those you meet. What are you doing in this forum? What you do here has nothing to do with pick up and everything to do with justifying your life of loneliness.
Care to explain your 'point' further? I'm certain you do not understand the straw man fallacy; it usually begins with a misrepresentation or a distortion of a subject's position and argument. Please feel free to clarify any perceived disconnect.

*If you're feeling urges for yo mama jokes and self-promotional (to you) but self-mocking (to us) blabber, save yourself from too much trouble and just copy/paste your material from previous threads.

You're insecure. I'm so deep under your skin. I got you whistling like a tea kettle in your post. Im affecting you. You're insecure. I make you feel like you're wrong and you hate me for it. You hate me. You hate me. Not the world. You. You got issues.

And you distort everything I say so you're points rarely make sense. I could teach you a thing or two.

Now if you don't have anything sensible to say go away. Scram.

Let me show you how I feel about this reply.

You're getting defensive. And that's okay! It's completely expected. See, I love making a point and thinking steps ahead. You didn't give this threat an aggressive tone to it. I did.
This challenges you. NO REAL PUA... This practically says if you don't think like me, you're not a pua. I EXPECTED A CHALLENGE.


This is where I poked even further into your ego and challenged it. I caused to change the replies from normal opinion to well more aggressive and personal.

And lastly the breaking point...
An obvious challenge saying You simply just can't think at my thinking level. So while all your replies have actually vague argument to it. This took a complete left turn when you finally gave in to trying to prove your point and didn't see other alternatives than trying to prove me wrong. Doesn't work that way, bud.

I chose to lead this thread this way. Your reactions were what I expected. I chose to lead many things in life like this.

These comments are at the beginning or end of all of my replies. Coincidence?

You're not understanding, so I'll explain further...

Yes, it is his choice to go up to me and blurr shit out that can cause me to crash and burn. But here's the thing. It is MY FAULT because I lacked being to direct and straightforward to this kid. We already mentioned these point

So let's talk about Free Will and what you're arguing.

Yes! I could have befriended 10 other people and different things could've happened. But that doesn't change the fact that whoever I befriend, I didn't make it clear enough to NOT INTERFERE when I'm opening to a girl.

Q: So what if they had interfered anyways? Even if I had told them? How is it caused by you?
A: If this "Friend" feels the need to cause me to crash and burn, let it be because he has insecurities around me, or something else. Then it was my lack of modesty or vibe or I'm-fucking-better-than-you or something that I did to make him react in this way.

"The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars,
But in ourselves, that we are underlings."
-Julius Caesar

Whatever another person does is their choice.

If you blame yourself for everything you will beat yourself up alot.

Alright I tried, bud. Best of luck. It's not self destructive at all. It helped me grow and success in many aspect I wanted fulfilment in. Your goals and mine aren't the same. But then again how can you get it when you don't even understand the "how to" try it.

People are all the same. What are you talking about? Blame yourself all the time and you'll ruin your confidence.

As always, I had to conclude, sit back, and review. And I honestly thank you.

Just as I made the error of not communicating well with my future wing, I did the same mistake when trying to get my point across with you. How can I ever expect to have different results, when I am the one causing it? I need to work on my wording.

See CAUSE-EFFECT is too strong of a term. So let's change effect to HIGHLY INFLUENCED.

The topic is validation. Who should you get it from? Plain and simple.
MY answer: Myself.

Ask me how I achieve this, well... Let me shorten it for you.

See, at first when I got into PUA, I started become more self aware of my actions (which were seen as mistakes) I did around women. I realized it wasn't her personal life, friends, whatever that had the deciding factor on whether or not she slept with me. In the end, it was all about how I carried myself. My body language, my words, my tone, my rhythm. I'm sure you understand all that. And you see I noticed this basic fact that was present everywhere. My actions HIGHLY INFLUENCED how she reacted. If you can't accept this as a fact, then my friend, you need to go out and do more gaming.

So here's the connection.

While this all works well with women, I realized that my actions HIGHLY INFLUENCE what others do around me, not just women. And being more self aware of my actions helps me improve my overall game (of life... how cliche) not just gaming girls. Whether you're man enough to admit the consequences of your actions, or just want to be mediocre and point fingers (TO MY STANDARDS) that is entirely up to you. But it's a denial the vast majority have because no one wants to hurt their ego and just admit they're wrong. So tell me, if you can't admit you're wrong, how do you improve?

Okay how do I improve myself?

It's a bigger goal for me. It's no longer just being able to talk to girls and have them want me. I now look at it as talk to anyone (business person, teacher, girl, or whoever) and use what I've learned. And while this is ONLY RESTRICTED TO WOMEN, it really shouldn't be. I work on myself in whatever way I can. And just because YOU or whoever thinks it's impossible or too hard and leads to insanity (which is an insane reply IMO considering you're in a PUA forum), it may not be for the next person reading this.

The game opened up a door for me I never knew was there. Yeah we start out here to get girls and get laid, but there's so much more to inner game, your actions, and your influence that can be learned (Or so I believe). And while at first my validation came from getting girls, this soon only became AN ASPECT of my game. Now I seek validation only by improving myself.


I value your point of view, but this is what works for me. It helps me grow and success (again to my standards). You don't have to be me. I'm sure there are more open minded people out there reading this other than you who can maybe start to see where I come from. And this is for them. I thank you for presenting the most frequently mediocre questions (to my standards) I face daily. And in such a stubborn way too! You played the part, my friend. But I would like to move on than just this thread. Repeating yourself gets annoying after a while.