Hey fellas,

Hi. How are you all doing?

Please give me some advices as to what to do. I would really appreciate your help.

I met her while night street sarging. I made an impression and made her laugh. Then went for a number close. Two days later we met up for lunch on her turf. I could not get her on my turf on my dating terms. Which I plan to do on a second date.

It was our first date. The thing is she is this really shy girl. She has 7 siblings and shes the youngest in her family. Which may explain why she is shy. She is a real simple girl. Likes simple things like watching movies and shopping. She does not go nightclubbing.

It seems like she does not like to be around people or a crowd.

Basically she will make an ideal wife eh.

She is Thai-Chinese. They are usually considered reserved but not always. She is cautious of playboys. She was really quiet. But I tried my best to be make conversation and make her laugh and be cocky and funny and keep composure.

I teased her a little bit here and there. I made her smile and laugh once every 5-10 minutes.


Now the issue is, when I asked her out for a second date which was supposed to be this week, she said she was busy this WHOLE WEEK? I was like WTF? She said, maybe the week after this week.

I told her fine I understand and that I'll call her after 2 days.

What do you guys make of this 1 week of farking stalling?

I live in Thailand by the way.

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I cant believe that we would lie in our graves wondering if we had spent our living days well...i cant believe that we would lie in our graves wondering of things that might have been' - Dave Matthews Band 'lie in our graves

Yea, I had a girl do that to me. I asked her out to this thing that only happens once a month, and she's like "I'm busy today, but maybe next month..." WTF is that??? It's a big IOD is what it is.

Whenever they make broad, sweeping measures to make themselves unavailable that is a significant IOD and it means you need to either up your game or just move on. Upping your game means putting the pressure on them and try to lock them down to commit to a specific time and place, and if they bullshit or weasel out of it then call them on it and make them explain themselves. Get them to actually say "I'm not interested in seeing you" if that is indeed what they are thinking. And the moving on part is self explanatory.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

I dont get it.

I asked her when I was having a phone conversation with her.

I made her laugh and shit on the phone. She said I was funny.

And danm, its a massive IOD perhaps...Not good.

I dont get it...Maybe I failed her shit test somewhere...

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I cant believe that we would lie in our graves wondering if we had spent our living days well...i cant believe that we would lie in our graves wondering of things that might have been' - Dave Matthews Band 'lie in our graves