Hi guys just signed up tonight but have been reading quite a bit of material off here and putting alot into practice with very varied results

First up i met the girl at a small very classy cafe she was the tallest and by far best looking out of the group of 3 who were chatting with the girl making the coffees which i presume was one of their mates.

While trying to decide what i wanted i asked the short slightly chubby girl 4/10 whats the better coffee here which she replied the dark roast which was then cut out by the tall 9/10 who said the normal blend was cheaper and better. i replied to both by saying ill with the dark roast in a flat white with much distaste to the 9/10.

i walked to the back and sat down with the coffee and cake while waiting for a friend(who ended up cancelling) when i was approached by the girls who wanted to know if i had made the right choice i gave it good reviews and on the way out said to them we will have to do this again sometime exited the shop to be followed by the 9/10 who with her phone in hand asking for my number we exchanged etc my first number close

we caught up 2 nights later for dinner hooked up and still chat a few days a week but it never gets past the hug and goodbye on the 2nd,3rd meetings

whats some advice to escalate things as i definatly dont want to be F-zoned

cheers Jake

You know you've really hooked someone when they're chasing after you with their phone. However, for next time, I really think you should be the one to get her number.

Did you actually try to kiss her after each date? She's not going to initiate that. She wants you to fucking kiss her. She wouldn't have gone out with you otherwise. If you're really clicking with a girl, there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to kiss her on the first date.

It could very well be too late by now, but get her to go out with you again. Touch her more, and at the end, make it a point to kiss her. It's a lot more simple than you think. When you're close to her in a good position, turn your brain off completely, close your eyes and slowly but smoothly ease toward her and give her a kiss. It's almost a guarantee that she'll be receptive of it.

yeah we did kiss but i totally agree with what your saying im seeing her this arvo for coffee before i go away for a week so ill try your suggestion and keep you updated

cheers