I'm looking to retrain and would like a few people to invest some free time and effort into me. If you have the time, interest, effort lets see if we can get along.

PSA 1: It won't be long before someone is angry so this might not last.
PSA 2: I have some experience and at one point torrented EVERYTHING i could get my hands on. Got up to like 400 gigs lol so i have resources.
PSA 3: I haven't set any goals yet.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=44614755


Though funny from a guys perspective... This profile just isn't going to work so please. Feel free to make suggestions

To preface, my personal suggestion is that you get off the online dating sites and go out and meet women in person. You'll save yourself a lot of time and frustration, and your growth rate will be much higher. I've learned that from experience.

Anyway, the most effective profile I've written was had some mild humor but still told a lot about me at the same time. For example, I'm really into cooking (and subsequently, eating) so I wrote something to the effect of:

"I love to cook and eat. I'm pretty much a walking trash compactor. If you stabbed my mother and handed me a cupcake, it would take far longer than it should for me to come to a decision as to which deserves my attention first."

Ok, certainly not my best work, but you get the idea.

You're right man thanks. Where ya from and who do you get your cup cakes from?

I recently talked to a girl i used to talk to and she invited me down to this bar. I may check it out and see if its a place for me to hang out. I have a problem. i don't like going out unless i been fight training. I always feel like i need to be able to protect myself in the event fights break out. I hate being weak and in a room of people i don't know or are a drinking bunch. Thats my problem to work on but i liked your advice. I been tired of the websites for far too long.

What should a man consider when choosing between looking for an old relationship vs going out and starting a new one.

Don't worry about getting into a fight. I'm at a bar at least 3 times per week and I have yet to even come close to getting into a fight. And if I did, despite being 6'4", I'd get my fucking ass kicked. It's never bothered me before though.

Old relationships are old for a reason. New is always better.