Hey Guys,


Just a bit about me before I explain why I am here. Im 22, 6ft2, still living with my parents (but looking to move out), I work full time in IT development, love going to the gym and I eat incredibly healthily (like freakishly).

I have been single for my entire adult life, although for some reason when I was like 5 I was a complete player and had multiple girl firends at the same time.... Clearly I peaked waaay to early lol. Being as tall as I am, i've never really had trouble getting noticed. I have been told I'm attractive and because I work out so much I am in good shape (bare with me, im going somewhere with this!).


Despite all this I managed to remain a virgin until I was 21 all thanks to my amazing ability to self sabotage.

I spent my entire school life being, for lack of a better desription, a total pussy. I had opportunities to get with some of the hottest girls in school but i would always run away from it and make some excuse. Then in college (thats high school for our transatlantic frineds) I was no better, I decided to do manly subjects because I wanted to be an engineer but in doing so I ended up in lessons with mostly guys (5 girls in all of my lessons put together... smart move :/). Still, despite my best efforts to socialy destroy myself I had girls come onto me at parties we went to. Ok, so none of them were great but beggars cant be choosers... unless they are me and they are terrified of what other people think so don't want to be judged by "lowering" my standards.

Basically my trouble is that, unless im drunk, I am too self conscious to try game or speak to randoms. I am fine if ive been introduced to someone but in my current social circles there are very few single, attractive girls. Ive tried to get over my AA by taking the newbie challange but when i get in the field I just dont even try because im so self aware.
Any advice on where to start to get rid of some of my self conciousness?

Cheers
Cusco