So I am having a tough time transitioning from an opener to a neg or a DHV. Anyone who has ever experienced this knows what I am talking about. So here is my usual routine.

I approach a hot girl in a social setting and say:

Me: Hey I need your opinion on something. I can only stay a minute, but the other day my friends and I were having lunch. We had a really hot waitress, and she kept flirting with me. And here is why I need your opinion. So after we left I got a friend request from Facebook. I think its flattering, but my friends are trying to convince me its creepy. What do you think?

HB: OMG! {blah ,blah, blah} (usually I get a lot of intrigued responses, but they are always different. Some are like thats creepy. Some are like go for it, girls are weird, the list is endless)

Me: haha yeah I totally agree. (big smile) (I usually omit the next part of the opener, when you ask them how they would react if it were her friends and a male waiter because I usually get the that creepy response for my first question and I feel it wouldn't sound right.)


How would you guys follow after this? The opener is golden. Afterwards I attempt to carry conversation past my comfort zone, but it gets mundane and I excuse myself. Give me examples of how to incorporate negs and DHV to this routine. Thanks. Behr.

Just escalate, tell her she's hot and you wanna throw her in your spa.

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Don't omit the part where you ask her what she would do if a guy added her, that a great way to move the conversation forward.

If she says she would then say something like "ahh so you are the adventurous type, you looked it, that's why I asked. I bet you have some some ballsy things in your time?" and if she says no say "I dont believe you, you look like the adventurous type, I bet you have done some ballsy things in the past?".

You see where im going? Obviously smile and use your eyes but try to make it sexual after about five minutes other wise your going to get LJBF.

Besto Lucko!

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@ Body language. That advice is golden. I have never thought of it that way, that a fool proof way to continue convo sexually. Thanks.cant wait to go out and try this. I'll keep you guys updated.
@vic. That's my ultimate goal. However I do daygame after body languages's technique I'll add some direct sexualness, and see how it works out. As for her responses to such sexual directness. What should I look for? And what should I expect? Lip biting? Smiling? Hair touching? There will probs be a shock of surprise that could be interpreted negatively, but I should just look past that right!?