Scotch and I went out last night. Horrible night that taught me too things. Inner game must always be worked on. Last night we lost it. I don't know how or why but it just wasnt there. After nights were we could and would approach every women, worship the 3-second rule and close nearly every time, we somehow had completely lost out confidence.

Then the night got real bad - I get a text from a girl I picked up last week, a waitress, saying she was at a local bar - we go there, as I walk in one of the servers of this bar looks at me and says my name. Hot Redhead, an 8, that I had picked up two weeks ago and never called (i didnt remember looking so good.) I didn't remember this and uttered the worst phrase ever "How do I know You." Jesus.

Both those girls later ran into me (as if god himself had guided them as a joke) at the same time. Neithiers too thrilled.

Sooooo, idea - someone please point me towards some advice on avoiding the implosion (esp in smaller cities like KC). And some inner game exercises. Thanks.

Hi Che,

I don't know if this helps, but I keep a big binder of the girls I've tried to sarge so I remember their name and something interesting about them in case I run into them again.


Respectfully,

M

It happens to me all the time.
The other night I spent about 2 hours chatting to this girl and the next night she pulled me over with her. After about an hour with her I completely forgot her name, I had to ask the guy next to me but she overheard and went crazy and said 'it was over'... I think she was only joking (as she later hugged me when she was leaving and thanked for coming out) but I was working on improving my kino with other girls at the time so I didn't try and redeem myself.

Does anyone have any lines or sets I could run to get out of this if it happens again? I've since taken to writing down the names of girls in a notepad document (I feel SO weird when I'm doing it), so it would be nice to have an instant fix... I'm sure with some clever words, it could be made into a cocky and funny routine.

Look at this as a good opportunity! She's been negged! She now knows that you've got so many women around, it's hard to keep track! Plus, the fact that she wasn't worth remembering makes her have to work harder for your affections.

So, you've got 2 girls trying to get you at once? Good! Let'em fight it out. Let'em pivot off eachother! bounce between them all night and make them think the otherone is doing better than her! Make one laugh, make the other laugh more, if one gets snippy, spend more time with the other to punish!

If you ask me, this is where you really get to use leverage against them. Pit them against eachother. You're being fought over! Awesome.

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Some good advice here!

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inner game stuff

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i really like the binder idea. i need a phone that can hold pics, so i can save a picture with the number. hmm....

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