I have been knowing this girl for about 2 months now in class. At first, she was totally into me and contacting me everyday for an entire month. I wasn't that into her at first so I just played along and now that I am into her, I have been friendzoned. She no longer contacts me everyday, probably once a week for something that happens to be non-important, like how I did on an exam.

I felt like she lost interest so my strategy was to basically keep her away until I met her in class, because I felt I could maybe do something there. Every time she messages me, its like:

Her: "How did the test go for you "

Me: brb

20 minutes later.....


Me: Hey, not so bad.

Her: (goes on about stuff)

about 5 mins later

Me: Sry gtg.


My concern is this might actually cause her to lose more interest in me than the intended effect. Any ideas, thanks!

Playing hard to get =/= being an ass. Dont play your game like that, it's bad.
When i first started gaming, i tried being the cocky mofo aswell, it's good if you know how to do it, and ofcourse it differs with every women.

If you wanna play a natural hard to get game, give multiple girls equal attention and dont let one be your target, that's hard to get. and best of all, dont give away your position (be direct, honest, dont compliment to hard).

Hi, i think u're totally right. The next time she im's me, what do you think the balance should be between my attention and hers? How should I approach an instant message by some girl on the verge/possible already friendzoned me?

I actually like what you did. You're making her chase you. But you have to pull her back in after you push her away. Remember that.

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Tough one, it really does depend on the girl, i have so many different approaches based on the impression i get from their body language, facial expression or quotes/statusses on facebook, 9/10 i do hit the spot though.

I would strongly advise you to escalate as soon as possible, I made the same mistake a billion times before, trying to build comfort through texting/facebook and let me tell you that it's pure friendzone material. IF you want this girl, call her, have a good conversation, flirt and laugh, and invite her to a place you're going (or make something up). Do not waste your time texting.

Currently in a perfect situation myself, met a girl on friday, added her, flirted with her, got her number the same night and after a good amount of rapport inviting her to a day 2, she's totally into it and i'm sure that on saturday, more will come

Every girl i talked to have the same view for men

Confident, funny, social. 3 key aspects that make women melt, use them well.

Thanks for the response. She's in my class so I plan on first asking her to go study with me for a few hours (if i study too long i might lose the vibe with her) then during that time i plan on asking her out somewhere. do you think that is a reasonable strategy or is there a better one? i say this because i haven't talked to her face to face in about 3 weeks and i notice that whenever i appear in person, her interest level peaks much much more. in fact, i feel like everytime i see her, it resets the friendzoning to a certain degree....