On friday night i went to this crazy pre x-mos party (for people to celebrate their last year of high-school). I had the most amazing night ever, my game was rock-solid and i met about 20-30 girls, went around high-fiving them and shit started to roll. I met this random guy on the toilet and talked to him about the party, next thing you know, this girl shows up out of nowhere, beautiful blond girl with blue eyes, dayumm, seriously hot.

She comes to me and goes

Her: ''Who are you?! with a smile''
Me: ''Your worst nightmare'' ''smiles back''
Her: ''laughs'' do you know anyone from here?
Me: I met your buddy on the toilet

She laughed and we continued chatting it up for a bit, great convo, good signs etc, she was really interested
I went back to my mates for a while and went for a piss again, the guy i met on the toilet was sitting there with like 7 random girls and this 1 blond chick.

So i run up to him and i go.

''Wow, so you're keeping all these girls for yourself? Not cool bro, Introduce me to them. I highfive all of them and they started asking me questions etc, lots of laughs and so on, and they all ask me why i'm there, and the guy goes '' hes my cousin dont you see it''? best part was, there's nothing common about us, but the girls believed it somehow, they start questioning and we kept the game up together, not giving info and eventually the hot chick turns to me and says, no no, he's actually my cousin! and we continue to rock the scene, laughing, humour, dhv, whatever, good convo's, it kept the girls very interested.

At one point the blond chick goes like, damn you're big, so i give her my hand to measure and she litterally held our hand-to-hand position for like 10-15 seconds. That's probably where it became quite akward for her, afterwards she was the one that was physically escalating, i ofcourse played along and gave her the favour back.

I went back home and eventually i found her facebook through 2 girls i number closed that night and opened up. She responded really positive and kept saying things like ''you made my night really awesome!'' and we exchanged alot of jokes together. I kept negging her lightly and it worked like a charm, about an hour later she went had to go as she was in a hurry, so i didn't wanna ruin the mood by going for a number close.

Point of all, i dont plan on being the facebook guy to talk with, i wanna close her up and meet her maybe on wednesday (halloweenparty). How should i rebuild comfort or whatever to lead into closing her up? I hate that about facebook, you roll a convo, and a day or 2 later, the mood is different.

you got this one in the bag man tell her about the party we'd and ask her to go get a number and fclose! She wants to hang with ya don't squander the moment.

Played well my son! , how did you show such game? ....sounds like you had some night!

Alright so I've decided to escalate this situation as soon as possible, the same night we spoke, i send her a message with my number saying i had to work and go to this halloween thing later and in the meanwhile wanted to get to know her better.

Day after, i woke up with a message saying, it's truely an honour to get your phone number! xx (In my message, i mentioned, you should feel honored, since i hardly ever give my number).

I responded with Take it as a payback for friday & yesterday (that she offered me a good night), i'm curious to see what else is up your sleave, it usually takes some time before girls can impress me, anyway i'll text you later after work.

Immediatly got a message back saying Gosh! now you're putting pressure on me :p , i cant do magic, i have nothing special, i'm just an ordinary girl! ^^ xx

I came up with a game after work that we'd ask eachother 2 questions every turn, to keep things interesting and keep the conversation rolling, it worked so damn well, got massive responses, good questions that required loads of thinking and i'm sure it left a mark in her mind

Things went good, she asked me about myself, said i was confident, spontaneous, social etc and she was like wow! you're a really positive guy aren't you that's what sets you appart from other guys.

So all-in-all, perfect! I was hoping to ask her out this weekend tonight. I truely hope i can keep my frame up, in the past, i've always messed up long-term.

Ok amazing, so I decided to do a few things before escalating.

Prepared myself to let go, in case she'd freeze out.
Be direct
Be honest
Express her my interest


Started texting her yesterday, shit went well, i kept my frame up perfectly. I decided to text her saying I had an important question for her later on that night.
Ofcourse first message i get after work was about the question, kept it up, didn't let go and eventually when she just couldn't wait anymore, i decided to play it out and managed to set up a date on saturday. Amazing!

I think the most important part is being ready to let go, i was mentally prepared for a no, and i was gonna move on if so. It made my game way more natural and it just worked out perfectly!