Background: I moved to a new state where I know absolutely no one about 2 months ago now for college as a junior transfer student. While I'm not saying, and would never claim, that I'm a perfect PUA, I have successfully had 3 f-close and working on the fourth since I've moved here. I'm just a work in progress
The problem I've noticed is that these interactions are intentionally set up as 1-on-1 to help with the pick up. ie having her cook dinner at my place or study at hers. Even in day game approach when I'm in campus, I'm by myself going to class and using the school as a topic to converse (1-on-1). I've also managed to go to parties that these girls know of, but realistically I initially chain myself down because I go there with this chick to f-close. The problem is this leaves no real social status establishment that seems like an essential aspect, especially in college game. It seems that this part of the game is usually set up during freshman year where it's easy to befriend and get out of cliques for the first few months until finding what's right for you. As a junior transfer this is an issue. And even though I've joined boxing club and debate through the school, as well as travel around the area for poker, I'll be honest in saying it doesn't quite get you the social establishment I'm looking for. Does this make sense to anyone?
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