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Ok, is it lost then? Should I stick with the strategy of not contacting her?
In all honesty, I don't believe any case is ever lost. But if we continue to be honest you should simply learn from what you've gathered so you can grow and apply it in your future interactions.
Q:But don't I get experience from actually getting her?
A:Yes, even if you do manage to get her, you do learn something. But, face it, you don't need to get better in that aspect of the game. The fact that you're in this situation is an effect of you weakness in your BASICS of your game. ie you not being more direct when she showed you the signs.
Admit you caused this, not her.
Learn and move forward so that the next time you get it right. This is a PUA forum where we help each other move forward and improve ourselves. No real PUA will waste time, and most important be disrespectful towards your needs, by helping you with this girl before helping you with YOUR baiscs. This is the only way to learn.