Guys, need some advice and apologies but I cant post to the relationships forum as I dont have the 20 post pre-req yet. So just started seeing this girl and might turn into an LTR but few things are giving me red flags for an LTR so just wanted to know your opinions.

For reference as well, I'm not a huge fan of having an LTR with someone that has been the village/town/city pump but at the same time, I'm not expecting them to be a virgin either. I do believe tho, that girls that I trust and have good "quality control" on their guys and vagina work best for me.

So anyway, the red flags:
1) I met this girl on a day 2 and 3 whilst she was sorta/kinda seeing someone else and she agreed to meetup with me during this grey period and on our third date (day 4), she said she had broken up with him
2) She's very sexually confident and I can tell from our get togethers, shes very experienced - I've had my share of one night stands and she definitely knows more than 90% of the girls I've met (and yes, I'm a hypocrite). She's also mentioned a few times about meeting random guys
3) When we were having sex, she told me she was on the pill and could screw her without a condom. This was the 2nd time we had done it and the 3rd time, in the heat of the moment, I did do it without one which I regret doing

Thoughts?

1) get ready for history to repeat it's self
2) good thing
3) don't be a fool, wrap your tool

So you think I should just keep it sexual rather than LTR?

Don't be a dumb fuck, next time use the condom or do anal.

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At the risk of hi-jacking the thread, does anyone have any tips on how to keep the condom on in a DIPLOMATIC way? i.e. without saying "I think you are (or might be) a liar"?

"the pill doesn't stop the transfer of aids"

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"Lets get out of here..."

While true, I'm guessing "you're a liar" would be less of a mood-killer

"i always play it safe"
"pills aren't 100%"

Thanks, will wrap up.

So if things are all okay and it does turn to an LTR, how long into a relationship do you guys decide to not use a condom anymore, if ever? I'm not going to lie, it did feel great without it but there are just huge risks involved

Yeah but straight vaginal sex does about 1999 of 2000 times (if she even has it that is) scientifically speaking.

Lets not get in to media brainwashing hysterics about rubbers here.

To the original poster, she has a vagina dude, all the red flag you need, i'm not just trolling here, I have had 10 LTRs, and all 10 ended badly.This isn't a sitcom and you aren't Seinfeld and she isn't Elaine, chances are shit is gonna get ugly, and you won't end up staying in touch, so ride it out, quit worrying about shit that's out of both your control and enjoy it while it lasts.

P.S Do wear a rubber by the way she could by lying and child support is an instant "100,000 dollars at least over the next 18 years or you go to prison" proposition in the united police state of america anyway. Knocking up some chick and fleeing the country to avoid paying the child support isn't the worst way to end up anyway though the way this country is going.


Gun

Always protect the weapon, the girl seems sexually active how do you know that the girl not has any stds. If there is one night stands and relationships like this always use protection!

Always protect the weapon, the girl seems sexually active how do you know that the girl not has any stds. If there is one night stands and relationships like this always use protection!

Thanks guys

i don't get clubby girls for ltr. the ones i've been with were quite stable and didn't want kids either. i asked for an std test after a month as we had trust, used some less conventional forms of birth control