If you know where you probably might find her, go and search her...tomorrow.

I have no idea what her schedule is. I am usually not on campus Wednesday but i am going to be for additional studying for a practical i have on Thursday. Hopefully i see her. Thanks for all the quick replies!

Wait a sec.. what do you mean you "told" her your value?? Value is something you DISPLAY! What are you talking about.. if you are "telling them your value", it is like you're the seller trying to prove to her your worth and she is the picky buyer.. You want to be the picky buyer and inspire her to try and sell herself to you!

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We'll i do a lot of interesting things and really didn't fuck around with my time when i was younger so basically when i responded to one of her questions about me i elicited value because i do X and X. I suppose that could also be considered an attraction mechanism.

Update: So i didn't see her all week. I ended up texting her thursday night saying i was going to six flags with some friends and she should come with. No response. Plenty of more fish in the sea. If i do see her around i will re open her though in hopes that something might be there.

So its been about a month since i talked to this girl and the other day i randomly bumped into her. I said hi to her and she remembered me. We start to talk about her day, movies, and class. I brought up the fact i was going to this horror movie Friday (one we were talking about in our conversation) and that she should come with. She says that she is actually going to the movie with her friend earlier that day. We speak for another minute then we part ways. Before she leaves i give her a hug because i didn't get to do that on the initial approach cus she was holding alot of books. I believe hug was somewhat awkward mainly because she wasn't expecting it.

I haven't called her or text since seeing her again. My plan is to wait until i see her for a third time then ask her out more directly. Perhaps build some more comfort and kino then ask her directly when she is free to hang out or do such n such with me. Thoughts?

I say give up and not worry about her. At the end of the day she's just a girl and there's more of them out there. You tried to call her, she didn't pick up. you texted her to hang out- no response. Then you asked her out when you saw her. The thing I've noticed with people is no matter where they are if they like something they'll go out of their way to see it. People travel EVERYWHERE in the world just to see the Statue of liberty or to have a famous meal at a restaurant somewhere. Like we're on this website. We somehow find our way back to this website everyday or every other day depending on our own different level of interest. It's the same with men and women. if you like something you'll always find some way to be in proximity of it whether you know it or not.

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That is true. If things were going to click they would have clicked by now. The fact is that i do see her quite often walking on the same path. I think i've seen and talked to her at least three other time since posting my message above.

I would definately kick myself in the ass if i didn't try atleast one more time. There are plenty of other girls in the sea but in a lapse of personal judgement i am still attracted to her.

Perhaps if i can strike up a conversation again when i see her next then end the conversation with a hug then ask her out when we are making physical contact looking into her eyes while making a SOI in a very smooth articulate way perhaps she would agree to meeting me off campus. Then again this is setting myself up for failure or possibly initial success with a flake later. I have what i want to say in mind and its pretty damn good in my honest opinion.

I know there are other girls but its the fact i see the HB every time i walk on campus makes me want to try again and if it doesn't work out then i will keep it at a casual hi then walk way.

Your suffering from oneitis...I would leave her alone. If you meet her randomly say Hi then leave her alone (even if she's alone). If you don't meet her, don't try to...distract your mind with other girls...look around you and see how many beautifull girls you can find in one hour. Then think "What about if each one of these girls was a "project"?".

Damn... I figured as much. I still do run into her often.

New mind frame set...treat her as an acquaintance. Find another girl to focus your attention.