FR#1
Hi guys
This is my 1st field report. I will try to write some of these to organize knowledge and ideas and give myself feedback on my game. Yesterday I went to a party in a political organization of which I am a member. I am a member because politics interests me and not because it is sarge material which it also happens to be. I had two friends (both guys) staying at my place so I had a responsible towards them because we all had to leave together.
At the Party
I spot an HB8 whom I am interested in in a party of three. In the beginning, I do not talk that much to her but I talk to her friends instead. She is sending me AIs by looking at me from a distance several times during the party. At some point later in the evening, I spot her sitting alone at a table some meters from the main group. I approach her and we start talking while sitting close next to each other. I follow 60 years of challenge’s advice and don’t talk too much offering a bit of awkward silence. It runs smoothly. But then she mentions her boyfriend for some reason – quickly after mentioning him, however, she uses five minutes trying to convince me that they are in an open relationship. This screams IoIs to me. Shortly after this I take her hand and squeeze it. She squeezes back. For some reason (I have this protestant honesty “everything must be said”-complex) I ask her if she knows what an IoI is. She says that she has read The Game… We talk about the book for a little while and she is convinced that I have been gaming her all night. I haven’t really done it very consciously even though I have been interested in her – I had a little to drink unfortunately so I can’t remember every detail. I ask her if she wants to be isolated and she nods slightly, perhaps while looking a little guilty. We go to a distant part of the building and she gives me a BJ - quite hot.
After the BJ I was on fire and had lots of girls sitting on my lap. Success feeds success as Style says in his Annihilation videos.
Maybe it was more her sarging me than the opposite?
Travelling back to my place
Resume
After the party I go to a bar with my two friends and a Girl – 5 – who is tagging along. One of my friends is interested in her. We all four leave the bar at 5 am us three guys and the G5 heading back to my place. At the train station I spot a HB9 who is alone and waiting for the train. I make an opening which I have forgotten and generally just small talk to her while I show little interest. Shortly after the opening my friends rejoin me and we are more or less having a four person conversation with me doing the most of the talking directed towards HB9. HB9 comments on this guy texting her (booty calls), I compliment the guy after reading the text that she has received and shown to me and I say that all guys are creeps, it is just a matter of who are better at hiding it – she smiles at this. She is eating some pizza which she has bought and she offers me some pizza. Later she goes to throw out the cardboard the pizza has been served in and I tell my friends that she will be coming back. I was right. We take the train towards my station and while we enter the train I hold her cell phone so that she is forced to follow me and sit next to me
In the train I call my own cell phone from hers and tell her that she now has my number. My three companions and I get off at my station while she stays in the train.
Analysis of HB9 interaction
My compliments to the guy who was texting her was a straw-man compliment (I guess) and it worked since she disagreed with me that the texts from him were sweet
. I am a bit unsure on the line about all guys being creeps, I think it projects honesty but maybe it also projects something negative on me? Her offering me a slice of pizza is an IoI, right? After she leaves to throw away the pizza wrapping she rejoins us - this is a 2nd IoI, right?
Lessons of the night
Maybe I should record certain conversations to learn from them? Don’t drink or drink less - it hampers your learning and destroys your memory. This evening I drank around six beers which is about half what I would normally consume. I felt sober and observant compared to the rest of the people and compared to my normal situation at events like these. After BJ, I forgot to ask HB8 when and why she felt attracted to me – always do this to get feedback on your game.
Questions
What should I write the HB9? Should I perhaps start by asking her about the guy who booty called her and then proceed from there to asking her out? What do I write her after two IoIs?
I am still looking for a Copenhagen wing-man 
CHAT
