Well, as i am new to this forum, hello!

Now to start with my question, i went on a first date with a girl i liked on saturday. We had known eachother for about 2 months, but didnt really start flirting until like 3-4 weeks ago.

We went to the movies first, then walked around the city and went for a drink afterwards. I thought it went pretty good, we had fun, and some cuddling at the movie theater. Eventually i walked her home and we kissed at her front door, with tongue if thats important to know.

Now comes the weird part, next the day she texted me that she had a really great time, and i was a great guy, but she didn't think i could be more then a friend.
Well thats the classic friendzone for you, but i didnt really know her for more then a month, and her signals were completely the opposite during the date!

So can anyone enlighten me what i did wrong, and why she gave of mixed signals?
And ofcourse how i can avoid this in the future haha

First of all there could be a hundred reasons as to why she sent that text. It could be something in her personal life, and it could've been something you did. To know which one it is, you also need to know what happened between the two of you for most of the evening. In other words, you need to know game.

If it was me who got that text, I would simply reply something like "Well, I don't think I can stay 'just friends' with you, so we shouldn't hang out anymore." and next her.

Ofcourse, there is some tactics you can apply to get out of the friendzone, but I still haven't found one that's worth the bother.

My advice to you is to learn as much game as you can, apply it to fully internalize it, and the next time something like this happens you will know what went wrong. If you still can't figure it out, you will atleast know what the important details are and it will be much easier for people on the forum to help you out!

Oh, I don't know the exact circumstances, so this might be a wild shot. But one of the major reasons why she LJBF'ed you, could be that you only kissed her at the door and didn't go for a lay. You should've escalated more and gone for it.

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Thanks, and yea i will be moving on ofcourse, no need to try something nearly impossible. And about the last thing, that might be it, didn't think it was possible, but now that i think about it that could be the reason. But perhaps not, and there is another reason, thanks anyway though.

Dont be her dog on call , ignore her texts for a few days , look as if your busy (even if your not) and if you can be seen with another women by her. Shell soon be wet around the *cough cough* for you