I'm progressing nicely! Friday I went to one party and talked to an HB who i could tell needed a neg. She was too interested in her gay freind and kept scrubbing me off.

Later I went to another party and this is where my game starts to reveal itself. an Hb latina-8 hits me up (the one that always hangs with the brunette). I will now refer to her as "Tease".

Tease calls me and says "hey wyd tonight?"
I tell her i might go to a party and she wants to come. Later when my plans change i tell her and she texts back.

-lets have an adventure tonight, We will see what unexpected things can happen

She was eliciting sex but I know how she is so I just kinda brushed it off and said it sounded okay. Later I pick her up and shes wearing this sexy cop costume. Its close to holloween and my roomate Nafc says he was wearing a costume. We talk for a while. I kinda flirt with her and we arrive. When we get there I see NOBODY IN A COSTUME lol shes the only one because all I had was captain americas shield. I use her for social proof and start talking to all the other women. They are laughing at my jokes and giggling. I start to kino. I isolate one. it fizzles out. Then Tease asks me "want to go outside with me" we flirt out there but again...I dont know how to k-close. I'm also not screening right and nothing happens. When I go back in there is tons of dancing and beer pong etc. I'm talking to everyone and generally having a great time. I isolate another girl and BAM. NOTHING AGAIN. this patter repeats itself over and over and over again. Me and a girl alone and nothing happening between us. (this has been happening alot over the past week or 2 since I started getting day 2's) At one point Tease asks me to go outside with her. Looks me dead in the eyes takes a step closer and say "hey" I'm pretty sure we shoulda kissed but my pussy was bleeding . I should have wrapped my hands around her waste and gave her deep eye contact. The same trend continues over again.

Wins: yeah I was funny I number closed 2 of the girls, I can honestly say I had chemistry with alot of those girls. I thought I could have done MUCHHHH BETTER. I shoulda closed something

Improvements: My major sticking point is wtf to do when I Isolate.

I need to screen the women more and also work on my compliance ladder. I have much to go but I'm getting better everyday.

Sat
More and more Parties. at 11:11 i wish for pussy ha ha superstition. We go to the first party and I am in observe mode. I dont feel comfortable and it is coming off that way. The hb5 that invited me is all over my dick but her ex BF is there. She wants me I can feel it. I drink a small bit. I get a tiny tiny bit buzzed and start to open up. I dont have a plan or logistics... My friends want to leave. and NO pussy is obtained...lame

Sunday
On my way to work I see two girls on the street I stop at the stop sign they walk across and I go direct and tell them they are gorgeous. Then I jet cuz i'm late. Later that night I try some phone game. I eject tooo quickly I fall into the girls "why are you calling me..." frame and it fucks up my game. I think i'm losing value by calling. I need to know ways to keep up my percieved value. I also am gonna sit down and write my dream girl list tonight so I can properly screen these ho's

Random thoughts
Some of the vets make it seem like pick up is easy. Pick-up isnt easy but it isnt hard. Easy and Hard dont exist. What is easy to one man is hard to another. I remember a time when i thought number closing was hard. in reality the task never was easy or hard. I just got better at it because its a skill. Pick-up is a skill you have good days and bad days. It becomes easier with time just like catching a football or painting a picture.

Also I love women so I approach women and talk to them because I love them...even when they don't love me.

wins: direct game, realizing the importance of logistics

improvements: figure out logistics and also try to maintain heavy eye contact...can lead to kiss closes

10/29

Today I woke up late but the one thing on my mind was "its a great day for a P.U.A" I drive to school and bam as soon as I get out the car Hb9 looking good in those yoga pants...she aint going to yoga she wants to show off that magnificent ass. Well ima give her exactly what she wants. I get a brush of AA but i'm like fuck it i'm going in. I go direct and say "Your very pretty i'm Great-1". We end up fluffing and small talking for thirty seconds when our paths split, right when she is about to leave i get the number not a perfect pick up and its most likely a straight flake. because
1) I small talked about classification and where she was from and didnt screen her
2) The #close was asked for from a low point
3) The amount of kino was verrryyy tiny just a hug goodbye

But hey its a #close by far my fastest and I went direct so I was happy. I get the the class me and Suzy Choosy are in and she walks right down and sits next to me. She is foot pointing and leaning into me but I take no notice because she pissed me off the way she flaked on me last thursday (she just didnt pick up the phone). After she follows me, we end up talking and I give her a comfort hug (she failed the test...I got the highest grade in the class ha ha) We go to the library, I know shes still attracted to me so fuck it i practice escalating on her. I write letters on her leg and tell her to decipher them. Also I am using her as social proof for any other women in the library I may see later. I want to be seen with women so other women on campus know I am attractive. When I leave I give her an around the waiste hug. today was a good day. I'm super proud of my direct opener.

Wins: direct opener to number close, heavy kino
Improvements: escalate faster, look for more compliance and be more interesting.

I think this is a really, really good idea. I've done that before. Make sure you go beyond the physical too. Think about personality traits that you like, lifestyle factors, what you prefer in bed, all those things. I say it in my journal all the time: X girl wasn't sexual enough so I decided she wasn't worth my time or Y chick was boring so I moved on. It helps you pursue girls because you actually like them, not because they can be just another notch in your bed post. And you come across as a man with standards, which I don't have to tell you makes the girls you go after feel like they've earned it and that gets them more invested.

Also, I actively try to avoid generally calling all girls by words that have a negative connotation: ho, bitch, broad, etc...I mean that in a general sense. But, if a specific girl really is a bitch or two-faced or disrespectful or whatever, have it at. In fact, go big in that situation and go with CUNT or miserable whore or worthless bitch or something similar.

@Balboa yeah your probably right, I have lost that sexual judgement that AFC's have. I should probably try to stop using those words women and many others hate them. also the only physical is beautiful, I feel like as long as shes attractive outside the inside stuff is more important

Tuesday

I wake up and decide today Is yet another great day. I'm sleepy and tired when I get to campus but whatever if you decide to be in a great mood you will be in one. I put on a smile and get to business. Its around lunchtime and I still have not approached any women... Thats just wrong! I'm in line to get some food there is a cute girl infront of me wearing purple pants. Ha Ha she was put there for my approaching pleasures. I introduce myself to her. We fluff for a moment. I compliment her purple pants and start screening her. I get traits from her like uniqueness. Unfortunately the conversation kinda stalls and she turns back around. LOL the cafeteria lady knows what i do and she is just laughing at me chasing skirts

I go to sit down and a couple minutes later. I see this girl walk in and take a seat. I tell the guy with me immediatly "lets go with her" his gay ass smiles (I think hes in the closet) and nervously says "okay dude i'll follow you". I walk up to her and ask her if I can sit with her. She agrees and we begin talking. My typical lunch wing BigMike comes and we begin to talk. The conversation is stalling. She is kinda ambigous and I havent made a SOI yet. I try song screening. I am slowly trying to get closer lol with highfives! All of a sudden her gay friend comes into the set and whisks her away.

Wins: approaching

Improvements:
1) I wasnt screening right, I was directly asking girls if they were spontaneous etc
2) I gotta push myself in the set, I let that girl leave had i stood next to her and not stayed behind her i think it woulda gone a lil different atleast
3) gotta make a SOi or atleast let her know shes adorable, your hitting on her, etc Women dont like pussies they like men


Wednesday:

Suzy choosy is on my meat hard. I openly flirt with other women because she is loosing out. I decide shes gonna be my practice for escalation. I take her somewhere in my car. Emphasis on the take, all women want to be lead! Don't ask women things, don't make suggestions, be a leader, be a man! I am flirting and escalating. Grabbing her hands and leading her places. Flirting hardcore. I dont get the kiss though. I gotta get through the bottom escalations faster and get kisses on the cheek and try to build up to that point. Still not pulling the trigger but I got my finger on it.

Later on that night

I'm walking to the study room and I see litterally one of the prettiest girls I have seen so far. I say "how you doing" and smile, she smiles back. I'm nervous as fuck because shes a brick house lmao. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rrBx6mAWYPU I sit down on the opposite side of the lab as her. By this point my AA has reached full blown shit-a-brick anxiety. I try indirect because i know if i dont do this i'm gonna hate myself ha ha
me- "umm...uhhh.. are you gonna be using the printer for a while"
her- "ummm no"
me"uhmmmm cool..."

lmao at this point i lean back into my chair. I mean come on "are you gonna be using the printer for a while" 1) it only takes 2 seconds to print something and 2)WTF WAS THAT!!!! get some nuts great-1. Now I have to redeem myself, indirect didnt work so now...I gotta do it. My inner pua and my inner AFC are in a huge battle in my head. I will regret it if i dont.

me- Excuse me but your very pretty i'm great-1
her- Oh i'm Sarafina *smile*
ha ha i'm sweating nervous at this point
we fluff a little. I screen correctly this time and as shes leaving I say we should hang out sometime. She doesnt have her phone and puts her # in mine. Sarafina calls herself from my phone (accident...idk). I tease her saying she did it on purpose and she wants my number! shes eating that up. After I get the number I keep her talking for a moment to keep the rapport going. As shes leaving she says "you've got my number "

Wins: # close, Approach, Direct-game, Escalation
Improvements:
1) I still havent gotten the k-close, gotta build that compliance ladder stronger and quicker

2)The only kino with sarafina was high fives. Next time I gotta go for A hug good bye something

3)follow the three second rule, on sarafina this was like 10 mins but I still did it

Thursday 11/1

Nun big happens in the beggining but its a great day, No clouds and plenty of shine. I am sitting in class and texting one of the girls I talk to the professor plays a movie. I get up to go to the bathroom and go sit next to her. A small victory but I was super concerned about getting yelled at or about everyone looking at me (fuck-it go big or go home). I sit next to her and flirt with her.

Lunch
I see not one but two girls on campus that I normally see on campus and drool at. And guess what they are talking to eachother and another girl like a 3 is with them. I was waiting for them to sit down but they don't I figure they just need a push. I tell me wing BigMike lets go talk to 'em. His pussy is bleeding today, hes super hesitant. Its really one of my first group sets so I try to go indirect.
me- "uhmmm...are you in line?" (they werent)
them- "naaa sorry" and they move out the way

me....didnt i go though this shit before. awwwww shitttttt

At this point my pussy ass wing says lets just make eyecontact with them, typical afc stuff. I'm not falling for that. he says "We can always just go back and sit at our table (gaydude was there again)" I say helllll nawwwwwwww and grow a pair. I walk streight up and say "Hi you guys are adorable, I'm Great-1" we introduce ourselves. My wing is saying absolutly nothing in fact he's not even in the set. He musta been to the side putting his tampon in. I am trying to juggle them and failing. One isnt saying much just laughing, My target is talking to me she likes it. and the other girl....is mother henning...hating hard..shes the mean one and I call her out on it. I'm Maintaing my frame but My target (nat) and Mean girl are now talking to eachother. Me and BigMike are on the side you know...chillin. They leave we leave and I get a bout of depression ha ha. I cant stay in the lunchroom I go to the library bathroom to pull my state out of the toilet. As I walk to a computer I see Nat sitting alone at a table. I figure "fuck it...i already feel like poo" . I Sit next to her and begin talking. We INSTANTLY connect, I screen her and shes hitting all the right points. I offer her to hang out she says maybe but gives me her number. I begin to kino and flirt hard hard. She tells me she thinks i'm cool, start playing with her hair. Shes feeling me. I again ask for the hang out she deflects because this girl has a legitimate schedule! and it really is full she shows me. I get a hug goodbye.

Wins: going for it, Approach, Isolated her(sorta), Screening, Kino

Improvements:
1) learn group theory to deal with the obstacle
2) I accidentally dropped the word slut while talking to her, never do this ..EVERRRRRR

For the pm on flakes, I'd rather post it here so people could correct/change/help or whatever. I want you to get the best advice:)

True I had heaps of flakes. How did I get over them? I can't say I did. A few things just naturally developed. . . after awhile I could sort of just tell when the girl was hooked or I guess the technical term invested, otherwise I wouldn't bother with the number.

Tips I guess that would help is know 5 things about her before she goes, let her know you and not just remember you as some guy but as great 1 the guy who took an interest in me(I would recommend reading a book called how to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie)

Make sure your intentions are clear though, I don't give a fuck so I go straight direct, saves time. But then again thats just what I do.

I guess what I do is just be myself, but with the guidelines of touching etc so the interaction is completely normal, we connect on some level and things naturally move forward like the case of the really hot chick in your post above.

It will come to you in time, it's just a sticking point.

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Lately i've bee doing alot of research on game. Thinking about game. Dreaming about game... Its taking up a huge part of my life. Sometimes I wonder if I should just quit cuz i've been getting sooooo many fucking flakes. I mean nearly every close happens to flake on me and I havent been understanding why so I have been contacting pua's of all different levels to find out why! I realize that I have been going about this the wrong way. I have been trying to run and when i havent learned to walk...falling and crawling. I'm in the pain period of PUA.
I've chalked it down to a number of holes in my game! Which I need to adress its the fundementals I fucking suck at so I'm starting again from day 1 with a new journal I want a fresh start. So i'm gonna restart my journal the right way. thanks for following if you have been.