You had many green lights here along the way and you showed a lack of interest or that is how she interpreted it anyway.

Girls are fickle with tiny 'hamster' brains. When they are down to fuck I never refuse.

Yo should have nailed her on the Monday as well.

Go and get her again and keep on fucking her.

This time I would be a bit more attentive, at least until you decide to move on:).

thanks for your input james appreciate it,

On one night I didnt seduce .. you should have seen how the power dynamic shifted, she began calling me on the phone every night there after now that I think about it

My text game is my weak point and thats where Im striving to improve on;

what do you suggest in replying to her... isnt setting meet up too soon?
I think just a dhv reply ending on a high note is good or should I ask a question and then text her later in the week for a halloween meet up? Something like...

Ah gd to hear! yeah Im very strange;) Doing gd hun went abroad and took my driving test but flonked the second part, any tips?

I rarely text unless to arrange a meeting as I have confused their minds with trying to be funny on occasion with negative results.

How old is the girl and which country are you from?

What are the opinions on setting up a meet this soon via text?

How about a statement like come along to a party this weekend

She is 27 from the UK, why do you ask?

It helps if posters list age of HB and location as not all girls have the same cultural upbringing.

OK, I used to live in the UK as well and I found the women notoriously stupid and 'up themselves'. An HB5 really does believe that she is an 8+. Horrible.

Anyway I would just call her rather than text and say something like: "look, I am interested but i was just really busy. I am going to come round and take you out on x date and x time"

Do not ask just tell her and then gauge her response.

I would do this sooner rather than later as according to her small mind her feelings are hurt by your lack of communication and she is looking for re assurance whatever the fuck that means!

Bring her 'right back on track' until she is fully invested in you ie after 6+ more hard fucks etc.

You never are too busy to send a message.

James thanks for this advice - it means a lot .

I will call her and set it up this week - great advice right there in being direct.

I sent her a comfort text no joking or negging, what you said struck with me sometimes you have to ease off the neg pedal especially after no contact.

I have an issue which is affecting my inner game. I live with my family, she doesnt. When we were dating she once texted me she cant wait for me to stay the night. It is an issue that I can see will be raised again, getting laid is not the problem here, being man enough to tell your family that you staying over a girls house is. Can anyone shed some light on this?

Listen carefully. Most girls will react badly to a neg and I rarely do it unless they think too much of themselves and they have an ego problem.

Save it for the HB9's I always say to myself but I do not know any.

They all have 2 tits and a pussy and most bore the shit out of me after a very short time so I tend to score them down.

I tease a lot but not neg.

You family is not the problem. Your parents know about the 'birds and the bees'.
They had sex to have you.

The issue is how you are perceiving their reaction when there most likely will not be much of one if at all. You are an adult I assume in your 20's.

I used to just tell mine that I was staying with a friend or friends. No real questions were asked but I would have said yes it is girl who is a friend of mine.

Have no worries. Set the date and get a decent BJ and fuck her hard.

I had a lot of English girls when I lived there (South East) and know their mentality well so hit me up with a PM if you want anytime.

I hope this info can help others who may be in similar boats, thanks for sharing your life experiences and tips etc

I read somewhere on here that having sex 3 or 6 times with someone is a deal breaker/ no condoms etc to get them more connected/interested/under your spell?!, which is hard to believe, who comes up with this lol? Maybe Im mistaken

I have no doubt that I can get with her again and different people on here have different agendas. Personally I would like to be in a relationship or at least try to see what it is to be in one, never have done before. How do I communicate this if at all?
When Im with some one its just about having as much fun as possible, I dont exhibit neediness, which led her to send ultimatums etc, I presume its something she should bring up. Theres a fine line. I just dont remember this being mentioned at all at the end of the game or mystery method lol

Well if you continue to fuck her and decide that you like her company and things are going well you can just make it a more regular thing.

A women's idea of a relationship is not always the same as a mans so just by texting her back within a reasonable time, sometimes going out for fun things (not dinner and candles!) and making sure she has an orgasm each time will do nicely.

She has to 'feel' that you care.

What you really feel only you will know.

For a "newbie" you definitely have a good mindset when it comes to girls.

You just need to iron out some kinks and you'll be a fucking boss bro.

Whatever you want with this girl is how you want to frame your relationship.

Also, go get more girls

Appreciate the replies- thanks jameswatson and vietnameseprodigy.

I texted her yesterday in the evening when she replied to me in the morning,
I let her know how I was etc no questions so Im not expecting a reply and havent got one... but Id like to set up a meetup as James suggested sooner than later. Should I leave it wait for an IOI text or call?

And yes I will go get more girls just want to get this one out the way lol

I would not wait anymore.

I would call her and set something up.

You could always offer to cook something for her at her place.

I have done this before and they love it, but I am good cook and you may not be.

A bottle of wine and bought snacks will do the job as well.

In their minds it is a shared 'connection' and 'closeness' etc etc.

They really are fucking aliens you know.

post your text convo bro, I'll help you out and you'll be a fucking boss when it comes to texting in no time

James thats a great idea on the cooking front will keep this in mind for sure

Vietnamesprodigy, I deleted my old texts months ago but I reopened like so;

me: wondering how you were... what are u up to these days? (sat after 2 months no contact)
her: ur def a strange man! Im gd at work! what have u been up to? (sun morning)
me: gd to hear, haha yeah Im a bit odd working and trying to pass my driver test at the moment (not quite there yet!) (sunday evening)

In retrospect I could have said glad you think so;) or asked her for any tips for the driving. I understand that each text should have a purpose, here its not to ask her out but to get back on her mind.

James thats a great idea on the cooking front will keep this in mind for sure

Vietnamesprodigy, I deleted my old texts months ago but I reopened like so;

me: wondering how you were... what are u up to these days? (sat after 2 months no contact)
her: ur def a strange man! Im gd at work! what have u been up to? (sun morning)
me: gd to hear, haha yeah Im a bit odd working and trying to pass my driver test at the moment (not quite there yet!) (sunday evening)

In retrospect I could have said glad you think so;) or asked her for any tips for the driving. I understand that each text should have a purpose, here its not to ask her out but to get back on her mind.