| So I recently reignited a flame that I had not too far back. She seemed interested to hang, said she'd get back on it, I made her laugh, etc..
She calls me two days later and asks how I'm doing, and also asks me if I've taken my ex gfs collage down from my wall -I responded "I was actually trying to today, but I gotta be very careful because it might damage the wall."
Anyways, so after a minute or two she tells me that she's talking to another guy and it might escalate. When we were seeing one another before, she wanted me to take the lead -I didn't. I was honestly a scared, inexperienced, bitch. So I got involved in the PUA community, read books, made myself talk to other girls and people in general. I pursued things, and learned new things. I've grown, and now I'm ready. I don't want to give up because I've invested a lot of time indirectly and directly, and I just want her. I do not want to lose her to some scrub that might not even be as threatening as my mind will so easily make him out to be. But how do I persist without looking desperate??
I texted her about an hour or two afterwards asking if she liked Italian food -no reply. But she does say that she sucks at texting everyone. Hell, if she wanted me out of her life completely she wouldn't have called me 2X and ask the questions she did. I want to do a Cassanova approach
Anyways, feedback please gentlemen
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