Alright some background, this won't take long. So in my time of PU, not a vet but I know what i'm doing to an extent. That will sound funny in a few minutes when I explain what I have to say.

I fell for this girl, my friend of a few years. I can tell she was into me but we had this "wierd" barrier between us. She would say i'm like a bro, I quickly got out of that. Now I got her in the rapport stages. I didn't know how to esculate past that "wierd" barrier because its nothing like i've fealt before or read on while studying PU. The clues & everything were there, but I became blinded, my game did actually due to me having feelings for this girl during the rapport stages, i've gotten real close to her & i've never been in a realtionship in years so it was wierd & a impact on me so it threw my game off & I didn't know what to do.

So out of desperation to get a quick answer. I wrote multiple HB9-10's on FB. Explained my situation & got answers, all said she liked me & they thought it was so cute blah blah. Now here's where it gets interesting. The past the girl i seeked info for, I messed up, didn't act fast enough & I guess you can say were on a "break". But while explaining my story to these girls I can freely brag about certain things and say things I couldn't if it were about me and her (the girl I was asking for info from) but because I wasn't even worried about her & the girls knew I was totally not interested & wanted this girl instead they saw what I was saying diffrently & not an attempt to impress them, you know what i'm saying at this point.

So now i'm texting this 1 girl who helped me, she knows alot on me just from that, & she was a complete stranger, being fed my most personal thoughts & beliefs on the subject & things in my life, such as how i've been single forever, I only know how to be a player & I'm not the best wih relationship situations because of it etc etc.. and I think telling these girls stuff about me and being able to freely "brag" in a sense was a sneaky way to attract.

The girl i'm texting wrote me on facebook a few times but I failed to write back, i'm so lazy. She said she thinks i'm great, wishes we talked more etc.. blah blah. Now i'm texting her, she asked for my number, hah. And here's where i'm stuck, i'm just getting back into game & i'm having issues with reconnecting with past people (girls) & text game in general.

Though she isn't a past girl I just wanted to throw it in there. Now here's where i'm having problems. My brain thinks of so many good responses at once it mind fucks me, so many ways I can reword to make it sound better etc.. & it stops me from writeing back sometimes because its overwhelming, i'm in this situation now & can use a reply I can use, just to give me an idea how to do this shit again, it'll spark a lightbulb.

Her- Wassup
Me- [Name]! What's goin' on Sweethrt?
Her- Hi :] not much, just got home hby? (Hby=How bout you)
Me- Just got home from an exciting day of work, i'm soar Af! :/ (AF= As fuck, also i said an 'exciting day' just to spark curiousness)
Her- Lol yikes, where do you work again?
Me- I work as a lighter repairman, who saves lives on the side. Nothing huge.
Her-Lol right, nothing huge ;] but thats wassup though.

Now i caught her off guard, but then she counterd me & caught me off guard, I was expecting some laughs & a "No really what do you do!" but she said that. "Nothing huge" with a wink, now that got me all screwed up I know theres something going on here, something I can say, an oppurtunity. That just sounds sexual, like shes talking about my dick lol.

What do you guys think & what would you say? Sorry for typos i'm typing this & not even looking at the screen.

Thanks I appreciate it !

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you're legitimately retarded

If you think it's sexual then make it sexual..

You're legitimately a 'useless' shit, in this case.

@Beard I would've but that's what i'm asking, what would "YOU ALL" think. I know what I think obviously (not being a dick). I'm just asking how you guys would handle this is you were in my shoes.

I didn't wan't to go all sexual just because I thought so, I wanted to get a little feedback & insight before I dove in. Of course you all can't be there for me 24/7 but like I said in my OP. I just needed responses from guys "in" PU already to share their thoughts to get me going again & trigger that "lightbulb".

Like i'm the ball, and you guys push me a bit (By shareing what you'd do) and from there i'll keep rolling down the hill. In other words it'd get my mind going down the PU mindset track again.

I like what you said though, its risky if she didn't mean that & I took it wrong, but fuck her whatever. Would you leave the winky in there? I heard from all over try not to use emoticons, & especially not the winky face. I feel as if I put it in there I look "easy" like im investing to much by showing her emotion, in other words I can play it cool, write that, & use no winky.

Example: "Well. . . Bigger then average!"

I over think things, but that's because i'm looking for the most powerful responses.

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"Now i caught her off guard, but then she counterd me & caught me off guard, I was expecting some laughs & a "No really what do you do!" but she said that. "Nothing huge" with a wink, now that got me all screwed up I know theres something going on here, something I can say, an oppurtunity. That just sounds sexual, like shes talking about my dick lol."

Pretty much sums it up haha. Seriously though, VP pulls girls left and right (he's awesome), so if he calls you retarded, consider it a compliment.

Well I think it's retarded to use emoticons ALL THE TIME, but every now and then I use them. I don't know how it would make you seem "easy". I just see it as flirty. It's not like your saying, "It's seven inches, believe me , You're just keeping it simple, I know you already get the idea, but I think people who say that using simple emoticons every now and then hurts your game are full of shit and over thinking it.

I don't care about VP or how much puss he pulls or if you think it's a compliment, that's awesome. Moving along now . .

@Beard Hahaha that made me laugh, true shit. I'll send it & see what happens. Wish I could test & see the diffrent responses with or without the wink, if it'd even affect it at all, sounds retarded, but maybe it can. Whatever, will post back results !

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lmao vp, I was thinking the same thing

"You should see my uniform!"
"I'm oficially sponsored and everything!"
"I have a license, you should see the picture on it!"
"I will give you a business card next time I see you"

Then transition to normal conversation.

She did not trick you or test you with her answer, you just didn't have much in the way of follow up with this opener. Easily transitioned to another topic of discussion and bam, you on to the next message.


Peace...

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You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

Everyone who comments in this topic that's on VP's cock, please go elsewhere or be of some use atleast, Actin' like i'm retarded but can't post a simple reply that stays on topic.

Anyways I took Beards route

Me- Well. . . Bigger then average ;]
Her- I'll have to take you're word for it ;]

Now how would I progress without looking needy? In other words I don't want to send some sexual text & she thinks "Wow this dudes easy af, I can have him whenever, next"

The best thing I can think of is "I'll guess you have to ;]" but thats pretty boring & expected i'm sure the PU community has something wittier!

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do you get why? You're writing a fucking essay with a bunch of theory crafting.

Here's a hint, tease her for being sexual, then be the fucking man and lead the interaction in a sexual way. Meet her up, fuck her.

"Wow you're so shallow, judging men by the size of their penis, we're done. :p"


If you won't do this, just give me her number, I'll game her

I do think OP, you're overthinking things far too much. Just see how these things go. Quit worrying about whether she'll find it too sexual or whatever. Just send what you want.

At first I don't think you need to put overtly sexual stuff in yourself, just make out that she's being sexual. So turn whatever she says into something sexual (even if it's not) and then tease her for it, or say you're not that easy and she'll have to try harder or whatever.

Then I suppose you can turn it sexual yourself, but I'm not a fan of text game and think you need to transition to real life as quick as possible. If you've teased her a bit, maybe try and get into a position where she needs to prove herself to you, and then get it so you tell her she has to prove it over drinks or whatever and get the date sorted.

I do think that over text especially (and in game in general to be honest), the less you think, the better things will go. If you're confident enough, then you'll always be able to turn a bad situation around - if you say something wrong, but laugh it off as a joke and remain cool and in control, she'll probably do likewise.

Thanks, I see where you're coming from, will definately be applying this to my game. But to make it even easier to understand. Do you mind throwing some examples in?

@VP I did'nt mean to write an essay I just wanted anyone reading to fully understand. And what's this theory crafting?

I see what you're saying though, how would you lead in a sexual way though? It's easier to say but to comprehend & understand it is another thing. Some examples would get me in the same ball park of how you're thinking. That goes for anyone, examples are awesome.

Thanks I appreciate it!

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