first of all i wouldnt want to break up a relationship because cheating fucks a girl up in the long run. with that said... if a chick ive been hanging out with comes on to me and has a bf, is there anything you can do to push her over the edge or is human willpower enough to stay faithful? shes a good friends and i would never want to intentionally break her up.

I would just pull down my pants, and throw a banana peel at her feet, if she happens to slip onto my erect member I'm fairly much absolved of all moral culpability.

Your asking a subjective values question on the PUA forum? This is better saved for confession on Sunday TBH.

can't control human behavior, it is unpredictable.

You can reassure her that it would stay between you two, that it would never be discovered. That it is ok to do, etc. In other words, if she is coming on to you, you can lead her into it. Escalation like you would always do. What also works and is quite powerful is just boldly saying what it is you desire, knowing that she wants the same thing.

Human willpower is enough to stay faithful, but it needs to be there. If you want to, you can, you always can. But you need to want to. Since our civilization is merely soft blanket on our savagery, there arent many who would really want to stay faithful. It depends largely on the environment and backgrounds of the victim. Religion, beliefs and most of all the bullocks that has been stuffed in our head from ... birth almost .

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

that is true, but nonetheless, you can often steer it in a more desirable direction

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

we just have a nice friendship and i feel like if i push that boundry it will screw it up as well.. when i can have sex with other chicks instead. i would like to have sex with this one but if she cheated on her current bf i would think she would be a little damaged from the process. But she def wants it and she may love it and go crazy for me after i release all that pent up energy at the same time.

I said it in a topic earlier this week: if she cheats or not it totally up to her. If you guide her or not, in the end, it is her decision. And she will not be that damaged, trust me. And it is your decision if you want to put the friendship at risk.

I think that you are looking in this forum to convince yourself. You want us to tell you that it is ok, you want us to tell you that if it goes bad, you will be still friends even though you had sex. But actually it is you who need to make up your mind. What is it that you want the most? Do you want her? Will the moments of passion outweigh the risk of losing the friendship? that is completely up to you.

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

Things like:

She is really into me.
She is coming on to me.

etc etc.

Are mostly wishful thinking combined with misinterpreting a womans intentions.

We subconsciously see what we wish to see even though we think we dont wanna see it.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

chick comes onto you what? what is this ^ here??

if she's comming on to you, what is this edge?

Yeah dude, Its totally up to her to make that choice. You won't be in the wrong. Think of it this way, if she's not happy in her current relationship then it really isn't meant to be for her in the first place. If she decides to hook up with you it's her choice and she has to deal with the consequences. Hell, it'd probably be a learning experience for her and help her grow a little bit. Life's about experience and taking opportunities as they are presented.

I don't think there's anything immoral about it either. If she was married then that's one thing but, unless her boyfriend is your best friend or something, if something happens between the two of you it happens. Just like Mr. Assertive said, "can't control human behavior, it is unpredictable." I hate to say it but like the saying goes: all is fair in love and war. Until she says the words 'I do' it's fair game. Maybe I'm just an asshole but that's how I've always looked at it.

Here's the thing, every guy on this planet is an ass in some way. Most guys have done or said awful things to their girl's that are worthy of being dumped over. What you need to do is find out some bad things this guy has done and make her see how inexcusable they were. Then she'll realize she needs to break up with him.

It'd be one thing if you are trying to break up a happy home with a girl and guy who are married with 5 kids and the guy works removing landmines from playgrounds in Malaysia so that burnt orphans can run around without getting their feet blown off. But that's usually not the case. What's more likely is the guy is a run of the mill AFC who watches football and drinks beer and prefaces every statement to the girl with "Hey babe..." and has probably cheated on her or is so lame that he couldn't even find another girl to cheat with eventhough he wants to. In that case, have no qualms in trying to break them up, especially if you really like the girl.

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Dude, the only person that matters in your decision is "YOU"! She will make her own decision, if she decides she wants to fuck you, then it is your turn to make your decision.

Personally, I would fuck the shit out of her...But meh I typically don't give a fuck!

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