I am truly confused right now. There is this HB10 blonde that I made an initial impression on by giving her a pie as an excuse to talk to her, got her number soon after and so thats that for now.

When I did text her a couple days later, she sent one response. After not getting anything back, at this point I decided to just cut my losses and move on.

However last night I ran into her again, asked her what she was doing, and she said she was going to do some work for psych. I text her about half an hour later asking how her psych is going. No response.

Later on in the night when I was going to take a shower, one of my hall mates out of nowhere says Hey did you know HB likes you?

At first I was like uh...but then I just said ya and walked away. What the fuck though....like is she trying to play hard to get to me or something? I have heard about this stuff before but have never actually experienced it so I don't know 100% if she's playing hard to get at me

why waste time playing games T_T I guess one reason might be that we are freshman in college so we just don't know any better lol

First of all, a girl doesn't tell people she likes a guy unless she actually likes him. This means she likes you. She's obviously one of the many "special" girls who doesn't understand the concept of text message communication. All this means for you is that you need to call her or talk to her in person. Be way more assertive when dealing with her. Be an alpha, lead the way.

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It might seem like women are playing hard to get sometimes but it's useless to assume so. You have to understand that women have to be really careful when it comes to revealing their interest in men because of strict and unfair standards that society imposes on women. They cannot risk being seen as "easy" or anything like that.

Just tell her that you want to get to know her better and ask her out on a date and see where it goes from there.

knowing she likes me makes things alot easier for me to be assertive it is just sort of a shock that there are kinds of people that are like this

I am excited to learn more

That behavior is not all that uncommon, but there are many different ways women may behave. It doesn't really matter because you typically want to run the same type of game on all women, whether they give you IOIs out the wazoo or act like they hate your guts.

I've seen thread after thread created asking how to game a girl in this or that scenario. But the specific scenarios, especially the ones with fewer details, have no bearing on how the girl should be gamed. You should always be confident, funny, well spoken, engaging, aloof, and non-reactionary. Sometimes I wonder if the guys posting actually expect us to be like "Well in your specific case you need to just be timid and hope she asks you out first."

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lol I was in a rush this morning and misinterpreted your post LOL.

haha ya I agree with you though now that I've re-read things (a little !Text has been removed by moderator for violation of forum rule #3 - further violations will result in a ban from the forum! doesn't hurt as well). Throughout my life in high school I was very timid. It's just nice to know that I have turned things around and am destined for a better future now in general and not just PUA