first off im brand new on here and if only i was aware of this sooner i wouldnt need to be typing this right now haha!

ok im suffering a major flake from my own stupidity. HELP and advice is needed!

so i met a girl out ended up adding her on facebook, i didnt game her to much in person only through messaging via facebook!

we hit off great and she told me she was out on saturday night and so was i so we exchanged numbers to meet up. quite normal id say! we danced a little she was with her friend so i spoke to her a fair bit aswell! walked her the taxi and kissed!


next day we arrange to meet for a drink but ended going on a road trip! end of night kissed again!

continued texting throughout all was well met up 2 more times these times it as if we wer a couple as we hit the town together, kissed danced and all that!

heres my problem the texts have started to flake i almost feel shes losing interest and im running out of things to say! i keep doubling up texts and growing impatient so losing any game i won her over with!

i mean the texts wer pretty often and now theres massive gaps! just before i used an opener off here got no reply then claimed it was ment to be for my mate to use...

shes out on saturday do i re game or am i fucked?

thanks in advance and as i say im new here so im learning!

saturday being not saturday just gone but the one before!

this was the opener thinking i was funny used during mid convo, as i say texts had began to go sour before this!

aliens are coming to abduct all the sexy people, youll be ok thou, im just texting to say goodbye!

the shame!

It sounds like you actually have good foundation for game. You might just be shooting yourself in the foot here and there.

Two things come to mind:

1. I always call other women friends or family women or talk to stranger women, before I engage a romantic interest in a serious way. If they aren't available, then I will talk to a good guy friend. You have to get the buzz up. Develop abundance of women in your life. The girl needs to hear and feel that in your voice and life. Otherwise it is really unattractive for them to talk to a lonely man in his room all alone without any women in his life.

2. Always be doing some sort of action when contacting a woman like that. Do it on the bus. At the grocery store. At a party. Driving. She needs to sense that you have a lifestyle. That is attractive. More buzz. Hopefully you are engaged in a project that she would enjoy joining. Dancing class, on your way to a sporting event etc. Sexy up your life for her.

3. If you had 10 amazing girls in your life, what would you do? You definitely wouldn't be sending chatty text messages. You would only have time for action statements. Try to make all your texts to women about action related stuff. "I am throwing a party. What will you bring?" "I am going to take you out tonight. 5 pm or 8 pm?" Women like men who take action and will fuck them. They don't want to chat with you. Always be closing. Escalate escalate escalate.

4. Always be looking for new girls so you don't get stuck worrying about these girls lack of text responses.

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thanks for your reply, game wise this is my most successful for a while and this was before i was aware of pua, its probably because i wentaboutthings differently!

your points are great, luckily i could be back on ball as i did recieve a text this morning along the lines of okkkkk i was wondering what that was about blah blah! by no means am i out the deep end in terms of re building that attraction because as you read it is there!

my next moves? i havnt yet replied as replying fast is needy right? also shes out on saturday so any tips of a good game plan would be appreciated up until then because when out wer ok it just so happens i may need a more of an attraction game for texts and then when im out!

once more very helpful and and welcome feedback from you!

she's acting distant because you haven't fucked her yet

hurry up