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I was wondering, if it is even necessary to have to maintain alpha when comforting during a loss? Or is this actually a good time for that?
Girl has recently lost someone very close to her, everything else is coming along good. Great actually, but I dont want to seem to sensitive or look like some pussy. Also, I dont want to be pushy in anyway during this time. Obviously her situation comes first. Any suggestions?
I think the best way would be to distract her as much as possible from the loss, if you can make her smile when she's having a hard time that's a big plus!
Also, give a bit more background information, e.g. how well do you know her.