So, I just started a relationship with a girl saturday. First off, she's kinda strange and spacey, but when we are together I can tell she likes me a lot. Now, we have dated for about 7 weeks and this weekend agreed to be in a relationship, but I noticed not once has she initiated a time to hangout with me. Now shes kinda shy and quite, and when I or any other of her friends are around she really doesn't speak unless spoken too. She also knows that I broke up with my last girlfriends because they are too needy.

Usually when I text her it is to meet, and when we are together in person I have no doubts about how much she likes me. This time I haven't txted her since Sunday, and she hasnt said anything. To be honest its setting me off a bit.

My question is: if I want her to text ME to hangout how long should I wait? because I know she is shy and it could actually be a possibility that she wouldnt text me so she wouldnt look needy. But to be honest I want to see her soon even though its only been two days. Also, what do I do if she doesnt text me.

This isn't pickup any longer, it's a relationship. You should've posted in the relationship forum. That being the case, you can't run game on her, you have to actually talk to her. Ask her why she doesn't text you. Tell her you like it when your girl texts you. She'll reply back with whatever answer, then you work your way through it and find a way to resolve the issue.

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I don't have 20 posts yet(required for relationship threads) and I thought newbs had to post here anyways.

So, do i wait till she hits me up or should I engage her and ask her to hangout?

Do not forget that what you're feeling now, she feels to, she waiting for your messages just like you, and think about the things you think...relationships...
Get out and enjoy yourself, she will talk to you.

Sean