this is my first post here on the forum. So I've probably posted the wrong place
my problem: I've been dating a girl now for 6 months. In the beginning of the first two months, she was eager and took much initiative. Eventually it faded a bit and it was I was the one who took the most initiative.
I took up with her ​​why she has been so distant. (she can be on facebook many hours but she will not start conversations, and responding slowly to text messages). She then told me about her plans for next year that maybe she should take two semesters in London and that she dont want to be for "on" since she is not sure where this "relationship" will go.
We've both told each other that we care for one another.
As things are now, I feel that she has full control over the relationship. I want control back!
for my part, two semesters is not long to wait for her.
What can I do? To get her to take the initiative and not give up on us?

It's the same old story. The guy doesn't demonstrate enough value, and the girl loses interest. Then the guy becomes needy and chases after her.

Advice: don't chase, don't be needy

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

This. Never be needy, never chase

"Two semesters isn't that long to wait for her" - are you fucking high? Move on. She's secretly banging an alpha, my money's on a room mate or a wominizer. Seriously nut up, this is one of the most beta questions I've ever seen posted. Your response? "k, cool no problem. Going to shag your sister while you're abroad, what's her number?" - MAN THE FUCK UP!!!!

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You need to be a value man. Watch the video on my signature, many many times.

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Nathan Griffin