Hi guys,
After working on my game during the summer and reading up on a lot of stuff I felt I improved hugely but I have been encountering the same problem a few times. And right now I have 2 situations on which it would be great if any of you more experienced pua's could help me out with.

First of all I met a girl during the start of college in which we were all in small groups, we hung out the whole week together but at the time I still had a girlfriend so I didn't want to commit, however at the end of the week she kissed me which I felt bad about. We didn't have a lot of contact for about 2 weeks, however I broke up with my GF and we started dating together. Since that moment I'd say she has stayed like 3 or 4 times. When we get into the bedroom she is okay with being undressed but she wants to keep her panties on. However when I try to advance the kissing to more "intimate" actions she doesn't want to stating she has to fully trust a guy before she has sex with him. The awkward part is that she is fully okay with dry humping on the other hand. Furthermore I think I have spent like 40 hours or so together easily exceeding the 7-10 hours needed for a girl to trust you. It's not a pain in the ass at all to hang out with her but I just want to know if there are any routines I could use to speed up the process haha.

Then my second problem, I'm a member of a fraternity and there is this culture around here of a lot of people having One night stands etc. However a week ago or so I brought a girl to my place, whom I had kissed with at the party. Same story we started making out undressing her but when I started to reach for her more private parts she didn't want to go any further and insisted on "just having fun" with cuddling etc. I know that according to the "theory" I should try to freeze her out but it seems really strange to do so. Lying in bed together kissing, I couldn't really think of a way how to freeze her out. I should note that she is a respected older member of the fraternity and it might be because she doesn't want to be known as the girl who slept with a junior in the first few weeks.

First I didn't really think these two cases were connected but now I'm beginning to wonder if it may be something in my game or style that makes girls comfortable enough to come home with me but are scared to have sex.

Any help would be greatly appreciated

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