| Find a way to get her one on one. As far as I understand from your post you've been hanging out with her and a couple of other friends at the same time. This will make things to safe. It's basically a highway to the LJBF-zone.
Invite her out to do something. It doesn't have to be more than a coffee, but this will show your intentions. Once you get her alone, you press "Play" and start gaming.
" she is surprisingly shy, reserved and hard to work with conversationally. "
Even the most reserved and shy girls have a button you can push to make them start talking. What this button is, is different from girl to girl, but very often it's what they burn for.
A girl I was talking to came off as a cold bitch at first, but what I realized was that she was hiding behind being a bitch, because she was actually really shy. She used the whole "I'm too good for everyone" as an excuse. Now, I had no real interest in this girl, but I saw an opportunity to improve my game. At first, the conversation went pretty bad, until I later discovered that she just had returned from a vacation in th US. Once I got her talking about that, she wouldn't stop, and when she was done talking about her trip, she was all of a sudden talking about everything between the earth and sky. Point of the story is, brake her "shy barrier" and conversations will go smoothly. _________________ Alea iacta est - The die has been cast
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