Hey, i have a serious problem here.

All of my life i have been trying not to behave like an animal that responds to the emotions of now and instead think what i really want to do.
Generally after trying hard and trying to be mature (i am 22) i have reached a point that i control most of my emotions and behave as i want to behave.

It is almost as i am in a constant zen-state where my mind is clear, my emotions aid me and don't guide me (aka i use my emotions and i am not ruled by them) and all is good.
After a long of time i feel in control of myself and i am happy for it.

But there is a remaining problem. Lust.
I really can't control my lust for women, its completely overpowering.
It feels like i have taken drugs where all my rational thought stops.
I begin to get completely driven by lust and don't think anything at all.
If i see busty breasts, long beautiful legs, feminine feet or an hourglass shaped ass, even red big lips or cat-like eyes (the last two to a lesser degree) i start behaving like a beast.

I really can't control myself, i feel like a junkie. This shit fucks me over.

It may either be a girl i see in real life who has some of those things that turn me on that i have already mentioned which i keep thinking of for the rest of the day sometimes.
Or it may be an advertisement/movie i see on tv or something that pops-up in a website while i try to find something else in the internet (of course not porn-related because i know what will happen then).

It seems i just can't escape from my lust. Its like i am addicted to heroin and i see sexy heroin-dealers everywhere i go it.
Its a living nightmare sometimes.

Even when i am standing near average girls who are not so provoking sexually, i am seriously thinking of grabbing them, kissing them, undressing them.

So please tell me is there anything i can use to control this thing?
I want to be able to consciously choose the girl i want and not be lured it by whatever sexy thing is around me. I am literally lured like a fly to light/heat.

Somewhere i read that girls in reality rule our lives till we are 60 or so, cause this is how we are programmed.
It will be really sad if this is the case.
Cause liking girls and wanting to have them in your life is one thing, but acting like a nympho heroin junkie is another.

P.S. I need to add that i am a virgin currently since i behaved for the vast majority of my life as an antisocial/avoidant person and i almost had no contact with females.

boners... they happen

just talk to more girls, you will start to care less

Use your lust to your advantage, turn that lust in sexual escalation = tonne of F-closes.

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Yeah i have heard that one before. And it can truly be an advantage IF you want to me a nympho.

In my current state the way my lust rules my life i can only be content if i have a different girl everyday.
Which i am tempted to try doing.

But what will happen then. Will my whole world revolve around pussy?

I am really crazy about women, no other guy i know behaves like that.
Sure they too check up hotties, hit on them sometimes, but i feel like a junkie.
I am completely charmed by anything feminine.

What the fuck can i do?

My aim was to reach a point where my reason guides my actions and not my emotions (mind that most people are chimps blindly following their emotions) thing which i have succeeded in at last.
But my lust seems like a completely different beast to control.
When i see something that i find sexual i behave like a caveman and my logic shuts-down completely.

How can you function, do your job and be successful in your life if the women around you are like walking bombs.

I recently have come to believe that the only way i could function as i want and be in control of myself, do my work and be successful is in a man-only society.

One of the men i admire who is Nikola Tesla in order to focus at his work there is a rumor that he castrated himself.
Another great man Socrates, said that at the age of 60 when you start losing your erections/lust it felt to him like he was released from the claws of a beast.

Sure we all like girls, and its nice to have a woman or more in your life.
But have your whole life revolving around pussy like a zombie, i think nobody in this forum wants that for themselves.

You're a virgin, when you lose your virginity your uncontrollable drooling will all of a sudden be much more controllable.

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You're a virgin, when you lose your virginity your uncontrollable drooling will all of a sudden be much more controllable.

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It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

I hope you are right. Although i really don't think so.

Its like my porn addictions, i just can't stop watching.

Like vicparkguy83 said, go out and lose your virginity and you will find things are more controllable, oh and stop watching porn (a little is ok, too much is bad)

What you call lust is really just anxiety.

I suggest that whenever you see a hot woman, try to picture yourself in a place of total relaxation. The beach, your favorite hangout, whatever.

This serves the purpose of controlling the blood flow to the brain, which is responsible for making you feel the way you do.

Google anxiety relief and you've got your cure.

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