Hi everyone,

Recently I've had interest or IOIs from girls on a number of occasions but have not known how to react to them. The most recent is this girl in my drama class who asked how old i was and mentioned me having a gf etc. I get the vibe she wants to be seduced but I just have no idea how to do it. I find that I read things online like the mystery method, david deangelo and cocky comedy but I don't know how to apply it when I'm in the situation. I pretty much just talk about usual boring stuff like what they do, what i do etc.

I have used negs successfully in the past but forgot how to use them now - (like saying one without being offensive or it coming out of the blue)

How can I start creating attraction? Is there something else I should be reading? Or is there something I should actually be practicing in field? Cause I haven't gone sarging/gaming whatever in ages, I just wait for opportunities to arise, which they do here and there, but then waste them.

It would be great to hear some suggestions! Thanks,

Actor

Don't bother with the gimmicks found with things like Mystery Method. DeAngelo is good though, so go with that if you must. Regardless, make sure you end up forming your own techniques that work best for you.

You are focusing too hard on the outcome and not enough on the process itself. When you are talking to her, don't try to think of what to say next. Let the conversation flow naturally. I remember responding to your topic you made about this girl awhile back; at least a few weeks ago, maybe more. That means this girl obviously hasn't lost interest in you yet. Get her out on a date somewhere for lunch as soon as possible. The more time you waste keeping conversations in school only, the worse off you'll be.

Don't neg, either. It sounds good on paper, but it's really not effective in the long run at all. Not to mention most guys don't thoroughly understand the concept and they come off as being total douchebags.

sing her a song, bitches love songs

Keep on reading.

Once you've read something a couple of times you'll remember it when you're out in the field. The only way to truly learn pickup is by trial and error. As Snarg pointed out, you should definitely make your own style as to how you pick up girls. What I've done is that I've read up on a lot of things, and I take a little from everything (whatever suits me the best) to make a style that works for me.

Unfortunatley, there is no magic pill, nor a magic scroll that you can read, and all of a sudden be a PUA. Practice makes perfect, and you can only learn from your own mistakes.

Short comment on negging: The best way to neg is by doing a slight tounge and cheek, where you compliment her and let her have positive attention from you for a short while, until you withdraw it with a cheeky comment and leaves her longing to get back your positive attention. Yes, a flawless neg is hard to preform. But if you pull through with it, it's gold.

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